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[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.ml 4 points 19 hours ago

are there any alternatives to the salvation army?

[–] RedFrank24@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Remember that the Salvation Army behaves differently depending on the nation they're in. The US Salvation Army has different policies to the British one, which has different policies to the Australian one.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 20 hours ago

Weird, yep, looks like they're just different flavors of bigot bucket and you should find a better organization.

[–] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 122 points 1 day ago (3 children)

When I was homeless, I stayed at a Salvation Army shelter. They knew I was trans and that my legal gender is male, but they put me in the women and families area. I never got misgendered or disrespected while I was there.

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 104 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That is, last I checked, against policy. Someone decided personally to have a little mutiny and not be a dick.

[–] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 62 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It seemed like everyone knew and was cool about it. I was on a first name basis with all the staff and residents. I had to go to the front office every night to get my HRT for the first few weeks until I saw a doctor and got a note that says I can take my own medication. I never had a problem getting my estrogen pills. And at one point a crazy guy developed a harmless obsession with me and kept bugging the staff about seeing me. They told him he's not allowed in the women's and families area and he just has to wait until I come to the mess hall for lunch or dinner. He wanted my help finding aliens or something, the point is all the staff knew where I was and that I was supposed to be there because I'm a girl

[–] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] ghostlychonk@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Interesting. Their US site has absolutely no mention of LGBTQ+ that I can find. I wonder if the Australian version has some autonomy.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 3 points 19 hours ago

They're also still anti abortion in most cases, at least on the US site

https://www.salvationarmy.org/resources/international-positional-statement-abortion

[–] vaionko@sopuli.xyz 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Considering the state of the States, I wouldn't be surprised if those policies were removed in the recent times.

I wouldn't be shocked if there was a Trump "truth" that threatened them.

gonna be honest, as difficult as it is to find housing for single men in need, they probably did you a favor.

Thats not the only problem with them. A lot of times local branches will allow their bell-ringers to skim a little out of the donation bucket. Or more than a little. I can't get behind an organization that doesn't punish stealing charitable donations for yourself.

[–] Microtonal_Banana@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago

I hate hearing that annoying bell in front of every store.

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 76 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’ve written my grocery store asking them to remove the bigot bucket

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 48 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] dontsayaword@piefed.social 53 points 1 day ago (5 children)
[–] weariedfae@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

In addition to what other people have chimed in, the Salvation Army used to (might still? Last article was in 2014) not pay female workers directly. They would make out their paycheck to the worker's husband. Because women are property.

I've personally been affected by Salvation Army practices. See, they used to deliver toys to disadvantaged kids around the holidays but those toys come with strings. Not only did they show up to my house when my parents were clearly not home they literally dangled toys in front of me and my siblings I was babysitting and refused to give them to us unless we said we would accept Jesus.

We were not a Christian family. In fact at the time most of us were part of a different religion (my dad was always agnostic). They cornered a gaggle of known non-Christian minors when they were alone and vulnerable. They manipulated and forced me to say I accepted Jesus so that my siblings could have presents.

Fuck the Salvation Army.

[–] aeiou@piefed.social 123 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Salvation Army has, throughout it's history, stuck with the anti-gay stance of it's Christian roots, and for some reason everybody remembered that this season.

[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

they, additionally, are against labor unions and secular soup kitchens. they claim to want to help people, but they won't help people unless it feeds their savior complex and control over congregation.

the funny part to me is that jesus reads as an anti-authoritarian. he preaches that it is better to help the hungry than to be dogmatic about orthodoxy. makes the salvation army seem pretty unchristian

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.ml 4 points 19 hours ago

if this were a socialist country, we would've had a better alternative to the salvation army. seriously!

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 22 points 1 day ago

Most years people keep forgetting. There's a lot going on these days, it's easy to lose track.

[–] leadpipe@piefed.social 76 points 1 day ago (14 children)

The salvation army is a big church and big churches don't like LGBT. They are typically out in force this time of year with the red buckets in front of a lot of big box stores in the US.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Salvation_Army

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[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Around December in the US, the Salvation Army(A Christian group with a bigoted history and overpriced secondhand goods stores) set up outside stores, ringing hand bells and asking for donations.

They're everywhere that allow them. You cannot escape the ringing bells.

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Here in Canada too unfortunately

[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm so sorry. But, this did lead me to learning something! I had assumed they were US-based, just given their sheer prevalence in some parts of the country.

Nope, it's the fucking English. Headquarters in London. Just... Goddammit, England.

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 day ago

Feeling alone, the Army's up the road
Salvation a la mode with a cup of tea

- Aqualung by Jethro Tull

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[–] mvilain@fedia.io 45 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Here in the SF Bay Area, most of the malls and stores don't allow the Salvation Army or the Hari Krishnas or any group to solicit. I don't even recall a Girl Scout Troupe selling cookies. I still keep the "Don't donate" Vouchers in my wallet just in case I run across a bell ringer in front of a Chick-Fil-A or Hobby Lobby that somehow got approved by the local planning commission.

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/ec/23/23/ec23236932789ab99222c7df093eefdd.jpg

[–] arrow74@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Refusing to donate to the salvation army and then going to hobby lobby or chik fil a is pretty wild

[–] core@leminal.space 9 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Those stores are also located in strip mall areas with other stores, they could just be walking by.

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[–] turdburglar@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago

i think they were just trying to give examples of shitty places that allow SA solicitors

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[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 day ago

Oh, Skeleton Army tread.

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