BeUnique

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[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 4 points 7 hours ago

We've all been there. Talked ourselves out of boobies and gotta try and salvage the situation.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 hours ago

And for what? A cold ass burger that's super small and tastes different?

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 4 points 7 hours ago

I totally get that! When I visited the most was when they had the dollar menu and I honestly used it to survive back then. These days it's the app and only sometimes but same thing.

You couldn't beat $3.75 for 2 sandwiches and a small fry when I had $20 to my name that had to somehow last me the work week!

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 43 points 8 hours ago (10 children)

I'm doing my part helping put McDonald's out of business. They aren't cheap anymore and somehow the quality has gotten worse. I went from going once a week many years back to once a month then a few times a year to never. Every time I go I'm disappointed.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 8 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I did it the hard way. Job hopping! I'm in IT without a degree (I have certs now but didn't when I started). I have years of experience because I took entry level positions but had gaps in my knowledge due to not having a formal education. I started finding jobs that I had 80% of the know how from previous employers specifically. The pay would always be low for what I was doing, but it was a trade off since I had things to learn. I had to look for companies that weren't willing to pay top dollar for IT so they'd be willing to ignore my lack of experience on some things.

After landing the job, I'd focus on that 20% specifically for resume bullet points. After 1 year (very important to stay for at least 1 year!), I'd evaluate. Sometimes I'd jump ship taking along with me any references, promotions (job titles are important folks), and certs I could along the way. Sometimes I'd stay longer than a year depending on what was happening. The pay was never right so I knew I wasn't going to stay.

Most of these places were small to medium sized, toxic, unprofessional, and had high attrition rates.

After years of that, I started landing positions mostly based on the network I built of professional references. I have professional friends that help me out that are higher up on the latter and I have ones that I help / bring up with me that are below me on the latter.

Being honest, this was not the easy way by far and I don't even know if you could still do what I did.

Today though, I have steady employment working for a large organization. My pay is good but not great. I'm not rich but I can make rent and have some left over for savings working only 40 hours a week. Really that's all I ever wanted! I'm still working on my career but I'm happy I don't have to do it while killing myself to not starve anymore!

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 61 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (6 children)

Anybody upset about this needs to be upset with their employer. If you need to work over 12 hours a day everyday you're being severely underpaid. Saying this as a guy that used to do it to survive. My boss would praise me and tell people everyone needed to be more like me while knowing damn well why I was doing what I was doing. Tried to be the empathetic hand while completely exploiting me.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago

I completely agree. One things for certain, if there's another COVID, the US will not shut down and send everyone to work from home. They are still dealing with the repercussions of the first time. Never again. They'll let us all die first.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

I have read this comment therefore I also can confirm that everything stated is 100% facts.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"My wife conspired with Israel to have me killed goodbye"

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago

And the morons will praise him for it. Saying something like "Fuk yea you tell them there fake news illuminati scum drain the swamp!" While whistling through his remaining teeth in his trailer park.

Meanwhile their MAGA "Messiah" literally is associated with a pedo trafficker that has ties to people that literally control the world with solid evidence... Make it make fucking sense!

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

I completely agree and I hate it. I pay attention to my dreams because sometimes they tell me things that I need to know or figure out. There's a reason why "let's sleep in it" is a thing. But I have issues. I don't smoke weed or take anything strong to sleep (prescriptions make me feel groggy). Instead I take melatonin nightly. I pass out and don't feel like shit the next day but the downside is I no longer remember my dreams. It's one of the long lists of things that I need to work on when it comes to my mental health. But hey, at least I don't find myself sitting on the edge of my bed having full blown panic attacks anymore..

I used to take Xanax but that caused an addiction. Plus the half life of the medication made me a different person when I was awake. So I told my doctor I didn't want them anymore and changed to melatonin.

I truly wish I could sleep naturally. I miss remembering my dreams nightly. The good ones and the bad.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 days ago

Yep! This is what Israel understands but pretends not to. I have no issues with Jewish people but I have plenty of issues with Israel.

They have lost the narrative so badly that even the Jews are openly speaking out against them.

 

I just had a really weird dream. One of those that you wake up and go back into the same dream later when you fall asleep again. I was me but surrounded by people I don't know irl but I truly did in my dream. I was with a group of friends. One of them was going through a separation and we were helping him move out. The ex was there as well and we all knew her and the guy for years. She was a part of the friend group.

The thing that really fucked with me is these people that don't exist were so real. It included inside jokes that I knew, back stories of how we met. Reminiscing of things we did together in the past. I remember pulling out my phone and shooting the shit with one of the guys showing old pics and videos of crazy shit we did in the past for instance.

There was also drama that I knew about in my dream and watched progress / unfold in front of me. Like a few of the closest people to the guy going through this were a no show.

Idk it was just fucking weird, like I was completely emersed in the situations, having unique conversations with these "friends", the story progressed like the movers finally showing up. People coming and going. Me getting yelled at to get off my ass and start helping.

The whole thing was surreal and I think what made it weirder was that it wasn't very eventful. Usually dreams are more interesting? Like it was just me, existing, doing something with this friend group that doesn't get together very often anymore that I had known for years but literally don't exist. Another weird thing is I wasn't the main character. I was just helping a friend out that needed me.

Idk, the whole thing fucked with me. I have never had a dream so.... Immersive based completely on people I don't know?

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