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Right! Take a deep breath. You are the same person that you were yesterday, in that, the diagnosis means very little. I had no emotional response to my adult diagnosis either, though it has had an impact down the line that i'm still processing.
I too was the weird kid, now I'm just eccentric and mostly harmless. Accept yourself for who you are, the world needs more interesting people and if those in your circle can't accept you, you deserve to find yourself a better circle.
Talk, friend. It may be cathartic, or you may work something out for yourself and find a new path. It's all good
Being ND in a Neuroboring world will likely always be difficult, do what you can to make it easier without compromising yourself. - I've stopped masking, and don't care that much if I cause a little disruption!
Thanks for the advices, I think it'll take a long while for me to feel comfortable not masking any longer though but it's nice to those things, in regard about circle I actually kept mine worsening during the pandemic and afterward I probably have fault in losing it honestly but I was usually the one helping others to keep in contact and no one tried once after to do that for me so I still didn't put too much effort into making a new circle or inserting myself into one, it's just become exhaustive and I probably should take better care of my mental health because I have been quite a downer and hopeless of life lately (not because of being diagnosed, but before that already)
Everything you say here, I have felt and am feeling as well. Before the pandemic I went out with friends and had fun. Now it's so hard to deal with other people, it makes me so tired to fake being like them, and I beat myself up when I realise I didn't mask well enough. It's like the pandemic made my symptoms worse, but I think it's just lack of practice. Also maybe burnout over everything else going on in the world.
You're not alone bud; now you know why things have been so tough your whole life, just like us. You're part of a big cool club ๐