Sorry but this sounds again like the typical e/Os bashing from GrapheneOS users.
Those two system are not the same. One is focused on security and the other on privacy.
Yes I know about the issues of e/OS, but it is still better than using Google or Apple.
For me personally I moved cause I don't want to support american companies. So Graphene was no option, as I would need to give google some money or buy one 2nd hand. But Pixels are still quite expensive compared with others.
Why do you always need to attack other systems, they can coexist. We should be happy people have more options to break free from Big Tech companies.