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Just started playing Death Stranding and the main character has it! Although the game calls it aphenphosmphobia. And I'm not sure it's a phobia, since it's a very rational fear for him.

I also dislike being touched, and I'm glad to have a word for it. Previously I just used the word autism, which is more accurate, but less specific.

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[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago

Both terms are correct. There are a couple names.

Haphephobia is the easiest to pronounce though.

In the game we never really see Sam properly experience it. He just kinda pulls away from Deadman a little and he goes "oh you have a phobia".

The scene where they both cram into the shower to talk about BB should have had Sam on the floor in a fetal position.

But it doesn't. Several characters touch or go to touch Sam and he never reacts with more than an unspoken "pls no".

[–] Darkcoffee@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 hours ago

That you would admit to not knowing this is so humble, I'm touched- AAAAAH

[–] iconic_admin@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Where is the line between a phobia and not liking something? I also don't like to be touched, I prefer not to be touched but I’m not “afraid” of being touched.

[–] TheFeatureCreature@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

That depends. These days, much of the time when people call something a "phobia" they really just mean "mildly dislike".

Phobias are irrational and excessive fear responses to various things. They are often very extreme and can be life-disrupting for the people that have them, depending on what the phobia is. A phobia for an everyday occurrence can really screw up someone's life and require extensive help to overcome it so they can improve their quality of life.

[–] waterbird@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

It means more than just excessive fear. I have agoraphobia. It doesn’t cause panic attacks, it causes a shutdown for me and stresses me out if I know I have to go somewhere. I won’t be hyperventilating, but I will be struggling for force myself to Do The Thing.

For me, the agoraphobia is closer to the second meaning here.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/phobia

[–] iconic_admin@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

I agree that people really throw the word phobia around. Like OCD, you probably don’t have OCD if you like straight lines and symmetry, everyone likes those things.

Real OCD is a problem.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 1 points 4 hours ago

This knowledge is touching, I'm afraid.

[–] underThunder@thelemmy.club -3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Have you been diagnosed professionally as having autism?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, and as an officially verified autist, I think self-diagnosis is valid. Testing is expensive and isn't worth it for everyone.

[–] underThunder@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

How did your doctor determine it's not ADHD, PTSD, or social anxiety?