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I don't know, sometimes the though of "what if all my leftist ideas are false? What if trans people are just mentally ill? What if gay people are just deviants?"
I honestly really don't like it...

It's good to question your beliefs I guess, it's how you grow, but it sometimes makes me really uncomfortable. Why does this happen? Can I stop it? Should I?

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[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I sometimes wonder if my parents are actually my kidnappers and that one time I ran away from home is actually when I got kidnapped and this could be a suppressed memory.

Or they might be actors and I'm in a truman show.

Or this is a simulation.

Or other people aren't real, this is my imagination.

So yea, I have a lot of "conspiracy theories", but confidence in those theories is less than 40%, so it kinda just lingers in the back of my find, its just those unprovable theories that I like to think about. I don't like actually believe they are true, but its just something I keep in mind as a possible explanation of reality.

I sometimes to wonder about the anti-vax conspiracy. I'm like 50% skeptical of them. Not exactly antivax, but like I'm not gonna be the first one to get it, I'll wait a bit to see if anyone dies first.

Now, about what you are saying. Nah. I concluded that it's very a bad idea to judge someone for being something they were born with. My reasoning is, if I were born as a [Insert Race/Ethnic group here], I wouldn't want to face discriminayion. As with sexuality, I ask myself: "What harm does two men or two women being together have on me?" Can't think of any, so yea do whatever you want, life is short, go fuck whoever you want, as long as you are all consenting adults. Same with gender identity. I mean, I think separating bathrooms by genders is just ridiculous. I mean, why is someone watching me washing my hands a problem if they are the opposite gender, but not for someone of the same gender? Like... stalls are locked anyways, why is there even a gender separation. Just make every bathroom unisex, done. What even is the problem with this "culture war" BS.

So yea, I don't really don't really doubt my beliefs in egalitarianism.

Of course not everyone is born equal, some have disabilities, the point is to treat people as equals.

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[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

If your leftist ideals are just that trans people exist and gays aren't deviant then I would like to extend an invitation to the ShitLib party.

'cause that shit ain't leftist. It's just human. I'm a ShitLib and I support LGBTQ+. Nearly all of us do. You don't have to be a commie.

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[–] tisktisk@piefed.social 2 points 6 days ago

It's a symptom of having been raised at the peak of a deconstructionist age. Doubt is how we reinforce our beliefs. I'd say you can absolutely stop it, but wouldn't you somewhat doubt that you can absolutely do much of anything if you meditate on it long enough?

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world -1 points 5 days ago (3 children)

You seem to be obsessed with a certain area of thought, particularly with your own sexuality & that of others. You should get therapy and figure out your own sexuality before examining this any further. There's something extremely wrong with worrying about other people and where they put their genitals.

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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Those are your only "leftist" ideas? 😅 But no, if it's still uncertain, it bears examination until it's not anymore, one way or another, and that goes for every idea.

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