relation_anon4238

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Do we need to respect our abusers? in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I wouldn’t do it to anyone.

That makes a lot of sense, though. Someone said they only do it to their trans abuser and my friend said it was valid because they were abused. This is very educational, thanks!

Do we need to respect our abusers? in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 20 hours ago

Thank you 🙏 I get it now

Do we need to respect our abusers? in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Ohhh, okay, thank you!

What is actual forgiveness and why am I expected to? in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
What is actual forgiveness and why am I expected to? in c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I agree!

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What is actual forgiveness and why am I expected to? (thelemmy.club)
 

The things I hear a lot are that an abuser or bully was just a kid, that she isn’t a bad person and that I’m being judgemental for saying something so mean just because I’m angry, that no one can be truly bad, that I have to forgive her, et cetera.

What actually is forgiveness? Do I have to forgive her? Sure, maybe no one can be truly bad, maybe she’s not a bad person, but I am angry. I am not saying this to her face.

Also, she knows what she’s doing and intentionally hurts others for pleasure. In my opinion, maybe not yours, that does make her a bad person. If she changes and stops it, then she isn’t a bad person anymore, but she was when I knew her.

Do you have to be fluent in these languages to be a polyglot, or am I considered one? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

he doesn't know what's raining

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 5 points 3 days ago (3 children)

“It’s raining outside”, or just explain it in his native language.

What are the requirements to graduate from college cum laude? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m not yet in college.

You can take courses that you weren’t happy with the grades on.

thanks!

Why do people care so much that their friend or family member’s partner is attractive and not just loving? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 week ago

Thank you! My best friend thinks he’s cute!

What are the requirements to graduate from college cum laude? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My high school GPA was 3.7

What are the requirements to graduate from college cum laude? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Awesome!!

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What are the requirements to graduate from college cum laude? (thelemmy.club)
 

I’m 18 years old and graduated high school. I plan to go to college, but I’m curious what you need to graduate cum laude because I heard someone (clearly older than me) say they graduated cum laude.

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Why do people care so much that their friend or family member’s partner is attractive and not just loving? (thelemmy.club)
 

Like, seriously, I have had a few people talk about how my fiancé wasn’t conventionally attractive, but he’s attractive to me :)

Plus, he’s good to me, and I don’t date for looks. I’ve had conventionally attractive exes too who have been horrible people, so…

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Someday, I plan to go to Europe, specifically Portugal & Spain. What’s the best region to go to so I can learn a language similar but not the same and expose myself to different cultures? (thelemmy.club)
 

I’m looking for a region that speaks both Portuguese and Spanish but also maybe another similar, less spoken Romance language.

It can have similar culture but also different, unique culture. Either has to be in Spain or Portugal or nearby them so I could just drive to either country.

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Do you have to be fluent in these languages to be a polyglot, or am I considered one? (thelemmy.club)
 

I can confidently say that I speak Portuguese, Spanish, and English to varying degrees. However, at a beginner level, I know Norwegian, Italian, and Polish. I also am probably at a very beginner level in Russian and French, both of which I’m learning and getting better at. I’m conversing with French people.

My fiancé says I’m a polyglot, but I don’t know if I’m just trilingual or not.

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What did your engagement ring cost, married/engaged people? (thelemmy.club)
 

To me, money isn’t everything. It’d be nice if I got something that cost a lot, but I’d also be fine with something cheap as long as it’s high-quality and not like a Temu ring or something.

We got each other the same ring off Amazon for $12.😂 😅

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