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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I don't like that the r slur has wormed itself back into common parlance, we nearly completely killed it off then suddenly it came back from nowhere

Edit: spelling

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz -3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

How old are you? Pretty sure people have used it for decades, at least since I was in school.

[–] wholookshere@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That doesn't make it not a slur?

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz -3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When I call a someone a cunt it's not exactly supposed to be a compliment.

[–] wholookshere@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you also call someone an N word?

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

@Korhaka@sopuli.xyz

This is a much more relevant question.

Cunt and R slur are not even comparable. But n word and r slur are.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wouldn't order them like that tbh for lest to most offensive. I would put cunt in the middle.

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's that it's very directly targeted at a group of people, would you call someone that's not gay a

Faggot
?

It's the implications of "this group of people are inherently bad, and therefore my comparison of you to them is an insult"

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Faggot is a weird American one so probably not personally but I can easily see context where I wouldn't be too bothered by it's usage

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

The point ain't the word, it's this:

It's the implications of "this group of people are inherently bad, and therefore my comparison of you to them is an insult"

Also no, it's not American, it's British, they imported it later

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's more that faggot isn't really a word I would use not because it's too offensive to use, but it just seems too American/irrelevant.

With the right context I might use gay as a mild insult.

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ah, so it's just that you're a prick and a homophobic one too, fair

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Homophobic gays is an interesting concept

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Ah see that's different then my gay brethren, we're allowed to say it cause it applies to us.

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

35, and they did, then it went away, then it came back

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't remember it going away. Is that a regional thing?

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I know I noticed it seem like almost overnight a few years ago that a bunch of American places online were suddenly angry about it. But no one in the real world cared. If it's regional in the UK then I would guess London follows the US more than the rest of us?

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It sounds like you were just out of the loop to me tbh, and are assuming cause you live in bumfuck-nowhere, where it's like the 80s never left, that everyone else does

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago

Pretty large town but nowhere near London