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Hey everyone! Ive been missing yall for a while, and without going into too much i havent had great access to my wardrobe or the ability to wear it.

Anyways, in other news, due to a supremely nightmarish interaction with police, i am now out to the entire state of oregon! All the worst people i was most afraid of knowing now know! Yayyy ๐Ÿ™ƒ

Plus some deeply personal and intrusive questions, like:

spoilerWhat genital were you born with? Have you had any surgeries? Any plans to have surgery? Mtf or ftm? Safe around other men or no? How long hrt? When start, what take, how much dose? And other extremely intimate questions like these

It was a mortifying, nightmare fuel experience. I survived though, with some more traumas but oh well, therapists are eatin good lol.

Just venting honestly, to others who would understand. โค๏ธโค๏ธ

Hows everyones week so far?!

Also, fuck the police, dont ever talk to cops ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

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[โ€“] mnfalconia_a2gc@retrolemmy.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In oregon, prisons and jails are segregated by AGAB,

AGAB or genital anatomy? Has there ever been a test case to distinguish between the two? I.e., a case involving very specifically a post-op person who underwent an old-fashioned, 1970s-style 100% sex change?

AGAB, afaik. Idk if i had the other bits if it wouldve been different. But the way they talked about it sounded like mens or solutary no matter what i had