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Found out that you can have natal genitalia preserving SRS??? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Holy crap, that's an option??? Why didn't anybody told me about it?? I was always on the fence of wanting a vagina, but I can keep my penis while having it?? (also the reverse exists for AFAB people)

I'm gonna be conservative's worst nightmare in a few years >:D

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[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I just looked this up and the first links are trans reddit gatekeeping being trans on this issue. Saying people that have this done are "trans" (with the quotations 🤮🤮🤮) and how their just fetishists.

Its sickening, being in a marginalized community and experiencing all the bigotry and hate that comes from being trans, and turning around dishing out that exact same bigotry to other trans persons. Its really fucking gross.

I personally, think im either going to choose to stick with what i got, or get rid of and replace it. But thats my thought, my call, and my body. And your body is yours! Mine give me extreme dysphoria, maybe yours doesnt and i think thats awesome!

Fuck gatekeeping being trans, were in this together. I love that you have an exciting option for you, and id never judge that decision. ❤️

Edit: also any chance to piss off the fascist right is an opportunity that shouldnt be passed up!

[–] coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

reddit will always be well... reddit, that's why we're here.

i like the diversity here

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yup that's what I plan on getting eventually. I'm a little unsure how much space I'll have available for the neovagina when erect, but the dream would be to get fucked in the pussy while I fuck someone else.

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well that's a new thought that will stay with me forever.

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

this better awaken something in you

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Oh yeah, w i d e awake.

[–] LapGoat@pawb.social 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

is there a place to find pictures post-op? ideally with the surgeon listed. im interested in pursuing this as an option but i also wish to see results.

[–] coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

check out r/salmacian (yuck reddit i know) there are a lot of people posting there.

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've browsed there a couple times and there's really only a few people who have posted pictures after healing, at least for trans femmes. It would be nice to see some different aesthetic options. For some reason none of them seem to have attempted a proper set of labia, at least from what I've seen.

[–] LapGoat@pawb.social 4 points 1 week ago

ive looked on the sub in the past, gave it another go today.

i think ppv is the ideal bottom surgery for me but like...the results images ive seen dont look like vaginas. maybe i just have unrealistic expectations but agreeing that a proper set of labia would be neat. something more cosmetically appealing than another hole.

[–] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

ahhhh this only adds to the list of solutions to a problem i am unsure about. ;)

[–] coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago

well uhm, sorry about that

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, my surgeon offered several options. Their website has lots of details. Here's the non-binary stuff (warning: the link has lot's of NSFW educational materials): https://www.mozaiccare.net/gnc-nb-including-penile-preservatio

[–] erin@quokk.au 3 points 1 week ago

whoa, i def need nullo

hate genitals

[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 week ago

At first idea of having both looks cool. But after looking for more info about it, i think that its not for me.

[–] Arkhive@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Yup I learned this about a year and a half ago and it instantly made me willing to actually put in the effort to go through with surgery. Like if I’m going to do it I want exactly what I want, and just doing vaginoplasty never felt quite right.

By my understanding the developments in the peritoneal pull through method will eventually help get exactly what I want.

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I've wanted this since finding out it's a thing.