Intuition or just highly tuned pattern recognition?
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Or specifically seeing things that break the pattern, even if only slightly?
I find four leaf clovers all the time they just pop out to me in my peripheral vision
Listening to your intuition works in certain situations.
Always listen to your intuition when it comes to the behavior of others (and animals). Ie: If you think they’re lying or trying to pull something over you - for are. If something doesn’t seem right with someone, there is something wrong. Make an excuse and leave.
Intuition also works if you’re an expert at something (like an actual expert, not something you learned from TikTok.)
Intuition doesn’t work on logic and if you’re not an expert. Dunning kruger effect is real.
Intuition also doesn’t work on your emotions. Just because you feel something (or think something), doesn’t mean that it’s true.
For the naysayers, intuition has actually been proven to exist, the more scientific term is implicit learning and tacit knowledge. In summary we actually are much more aware of our environment and lived experience when we realize. Through this unconscious awareness we can actually pick up on patterns and use this passive knowledge in our lives as intuition.
Sources:
https://cognitivepsychology.com/Implicit_Learning
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tacit_knowledge
Learning about the staring experiment is rather interesting too!
As a caveat, you need to allow good information in, get offline, talk to people in real life, move your body. If you're implicitly learning garbage, your intuition will be garbage.
I am cursed with people asking my advice, my advice being correct, them failing to heed my advice to their detriment. Time after time. People value my judgment, because it is pretty good, then proceed to do the opposite of it.
That probably sounds self absorbed, but it's not like I'm an oracle or anything. It's just usually fairly obvious stuff, but people are often irrational and do wacky things.
Oh boy, are you me? I've spent most of my life feeling like Cassandra. I'm not even particularly smart, but it's like a lot of people just can't see the incredibly obvious and inevitable outcomes of their actions?
I had a coworker like this. Always asking me for advice, then going out and doing the opposite. At every turn, she asked me what she should do, and at every turn, she did something else.
She ended up cheating on her husband by going after an ex who had just got out of prison. It was at that point where I (metaphorically) threw my hands in the air and was done. I'm not going to keep wasting my energy trying to help someone who insists on ignoring me and making stupid decisions all the time. She clearly had her mind already made up, there's no need to drag me into it.
People like that aren't asking for advice, they have already decided and want validation/permission for the choice they already made.
You're absolutely right. I didn't have that kind of insight at 19, but I've learned to recognize people like that in the years since. Which is great, because I definitely don't have the patience for that nonsense anymore.
I feel your frustration. I felt the same way about parenting. The number of "you'll understand when you're a parent" responses I got was depressing. Guess what, now I have a child to apply it on, my advice works awesomely 90% of the time.
I pay attention to a lot of off the wall information sources but unfortunately people tend to ignore me. (For example I heard about this mystery illness in China in December 2019 - but you know I was just being an alarmist.) I regularly mention topics and will be blown off by my friends but frustratingly a year or two later Jon Oliver will do a special on that very subject and the same people will suddenly care about it and excitedly explain it to me. Because now they know all about it and are interested. And don't mistake me. I'm glad Jon Oliver is making some of these topics mainstream but it's endlessly infuriating that it takes an HBO funded comedian to allow the people around me to open their minds enough to talk about the topics I care about. Even if they never acknowledge these things have been my special interests for-fucking-ever.
Does this count for adhd as well? I feel like I've definitely felt like this before. Predict what's going to happen, tell them not to do it. They do it anyway, shit falls apart. Rinse and repeat.
I feel like with AuDHD it's more intense and more correct with the pattern recognition
Go to a rural town in Utah. Listen to a medium/long conversation between two local people at a gas station or diner etc. Drive to another rural town. Start a conversation the exact same way you just saw and play the role of whoever started the conversation.
There is a non-zero chance the entire new conversation will replicate the original one verbatim even down to the pauses, cadence, and inflections of the original conversation, despite it occurring with an entirely different person several dozen miles away.
Intuition is easy when people around you think exactly the same way about everything
You found the IRL equivalent of Skyrim "radiant A.I." NPCs
Fled America when Biden was still president. Urged all my friends to do the same. If told-ya-so's were money I'd have fixed income in perpetuity.
Unfortunately, moving is expensive and citizenship elsewhere is expensive and complicated.
I'll get the fuck out eventually. Hopefully.
A lot of people don't have good options, I hate how much governments treat people like property and immigrants like invaders. I'm a dual citizen but getting family visas for everyone else has been financially ruinous. Hope they can get citizenship soon.
When trump won in 2016 I told all my trans friends to buy guns and bought them books about starting mutual aid/defense networks, explaining to them the democratic party soon would abandon them.
They were all still pretty liberal and were still very antigun. A lot of them thought I was losing it at the time. Since then I've taken most of them to the gun range to teach them how to shoot.
You're a good friend. Hope the mutual aid is going well, it's a less exciting day than the gun range maybe - but that's going to be a big deal sooner or later.
My intuition is fantastic, I trust my gut on everything because it's never let me down. I think it's amazing how countless generations before me were able to hone this instinct to become what it is today. Those that ignored these feelings ended up paying for it with their lives, while those who listened managed to pass on their genes, eventually passing the trait to those of us here today.
Which is why when I get a bad feeling about something, I sometimes imagine a crowd of my foremothers/forefathers standing there going, "GO! GET OUT! NOW!" as if they can see the danger that I can't.
As to neurodivergence, I've spent a lot of time learning to know myself. I wouldn't be surprised if being different from most folks causes a lot of us to self-reflect. For me, that self-reflection includes evaluating what I feel and why I might be feeling it. Having different mental filters for stimuli, I know for a fact that I consciously recognize things that most people don't - usually little visual details, or background sounds. Surely, there's far more that my subconscious brain is picking up on that I am not consciously aware of. So when I overwhelmingly get the sensation that something is wrong, I react - usually either by investigating what is causing it (if I'm stuck somewhere, like at work), or by leaving the situation (if I'm in a public place that I can freely leave.)
(Slight tangent) Sometimes I think of us as "the canaries in the coalmine" so to speak. With our different sensory experiences, we might be the first people to notice distressing stimuli, but that doesn't mean we're the only ones affected. For example, how background traffic noise increases stress levels - everyone can feel the effect, sometimes without knowing why. But usually it's us neurodivergent folk that are the first to say, "My god, it's way too loud here!" And we're right. If it's too loud for us, it's probably too loud for others too - they just don't consciously realize it yet.
My selection bias is unparalleled
I was going to say confirmation bias, but selection works too.
Validation biais?
Can best be described as cassandraic
Ooh thanks for teaching me a new word. I'm the same. It sucks how often I'm right about bad stuff that I think is going to happen. Cursed.
Ha told you so. The lesson you should learn is everyone else is wrong and I'm right
A life time of obsessive pattern recognition done to try to fit in will do that.
It's pretty good, but I still only believe things with evidence because if you're wrong once, it will butterfly effect all over your life.
Mostly because the typicals in your life think you don't deserve any benefits from your mind, only downsides, and wait for the moment you stumble to dogpile you and discount anything you said before and ever say again.
Mine's great, but it takes so long that by the time it proves correct, everyone has the AHA face and says "boy i wish someone had told me this 15 yrs ago before it was too late".

Pretty damn good. Sometimes scary.
Self fulfilling prophecy doesn’t count
Really hoping I’m wrong about Gen X retirement en masse single handily collapsing the stock exchange causing the worst financial crisis to date.
I haven’t peeped any numbers lately but the aging work force and passive investments into etf portfolios with nowhere near the cash reserves to cover the draw down once the generation of 6-10 children become dependent on the 1-3 children generation lol
Basically a race between the ai bubble and the silver tsunami at this point pain all around
Pretty sure if it's true that the 1% own 80% of the stock market, that's a far bigger problem. Gen X is just a drop in the bucket by comparison.
You shouldn't forget that you can not map generations to the real world that easily. It is not one year and BOOM gen x is retired. It's an ever ongoing gradual change.
Pretty good. I always expect it to be wrong, but still allow myself to be a bit cautious. But pretty much always in the right, sometimes might take longer to see the results.