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[–] Mac@mander.xyz 145 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Think of how resistant we will all be aoon as the plastic takes over our bodies!

[–] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 89 points 1 month ago (2 children)

From the moment I understood the weakness of my flesh, it disgusted me.

[–] drunkenkissstyle@lemmy.world 52 points 1 month ago

I craved the strength and certainty of polypropylene.

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sounds like a quote from an author you wouldn't think is capable of writing it

[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is it from Mewtwo Strikes Back?

[–] skulblaka@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

This is the beginning of a Warhammer 40k quote, specifically one used in the trailer for 40k: Mechanicus. It is - big surprise - a quote from the Mechanicus, which is essentially the human Imperium's cyborg tech support squad. The full quote is as follows:

From the moment I understood the weakness of my flesh, it disgusted me. I craved the strength and certainty of steel. I aspired to the purity of the Blessed Machine. Your kind cling to your flesh, as though it will not decay and fail you. One day the crude biomass you call a temple will wither, and you will beg my kind to save you. But I am already saved, for the Machine is immortal… Even in death I serve the Omnissiah.

It has become a meme in both the 40k and the general transhumanist communities for reasons that are probably obvious.

Thats why I dont even consume microplastics anymore, I consume macroplastics :3

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 95 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Except that we’re not plates, and most of us aren’t so fragile that we cannot recover from being emotionally distraught.

[–] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 51 points 1 month ago

Look at Mr./Ms./Mx. "Has-their-shit-together" over here

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The plate represents trust in that analogy. You can repair it but it'll never be whole.

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[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

Most people are exactly neither equipped nor mature enough to recover from deep emotional trauma

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[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Clearly someone was never cheated on

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is there lore for this screenshot?

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I also want to know. But no, it's possible it's about losing someone's socks.

But my brain went to cheating first, and that's not an easy recovery.

[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Yeah I was thinking of this too. Even if your “plate” is broken, it CAN be made whole again & it can become greater than it was before.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 39 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (10 children)

I have encountered this analogy irl. I was pretty drunk and said something distasteful to a friend. She ended our friendship over it and caused the group we were in to split into factions. We tried talking it over, but after I made all efforts I could to apologise, she responded with the plate analogy.

Honestly I thinks its a bad position to take. People have wronged me too over the years. Forgiving them, regardless of them apologising or not, is, in my experience, the better option for yourself.

The hate you carry with you if you don't doesn't do anything to them, but it eats you up from the inside. Forgiving somebody frees you from that. It's not about forgetting what people have done to you (and maybe choosing not to keep them in your life depending on how bad it was that they did), it's about not carrying the hate with you trough the years.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I understand your position and kind of agree, but some things aren't easily forgiven or ignored.

I have known people that were like family to me that betrayed my trust. although I wish them success in their lives, they are forever strangers to me because they are not who I thought they were, and just like a stranger that has broken my trust I cannot and will not subject myself to their lies again.

Have I moved past their betrayal? I think so. Have I forgiven them? Yes. Do I want those people in my life again? no. never.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

Have I moved past their betrayal? I think so. Have I forgiven them? Yes. Do I want those people in my life again? no. never.

That's exactly what I was tyring to get at. Forgiving is something you do for yourself. That doesn't mean you have to forget about what happend nor not let it have consequences. But holding to the grudge will do nothing but harm yourself.

[–] anachrohack@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

I've met people who I think really relish being aggrieved. I don't have even 1% of the interpersonal conflict in my life that these people complain about. I think that, while people do say things which offend them, they see these things as an opportunity to be a victim. Anecdotally, I've noticed a lot of these people usually have wealthy upbringings

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[–] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 32 points 1 month ago (16 children)

This is deep. The more makeup you use, the less you have a right to your imperfections.

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[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 month ago
[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

haha infantilizing emotional trauma is great for relationships

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
[–] ILikeTraaaains@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] needanke@feddit.org 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Take a plate and throw it on the floor.

[–] joel_feila@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

My floor is made out of nerf.

[–] nullpotential@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

"You knew what I meant, fuck off out of my life."

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Well pehaps he was engaging in the metaphor, instead of saying "I think you're too sensitive"

[–] multifariace@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

The plate wasn't a little removed like you.

[–] TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

If you've ever hurt some one badly enough to cause a break in the relationship, you know the apology is just the start to the repair.

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] NichEherVielleicht@feddit.org 8 points 1 month ago

definitely the plastic dish thrower....

[–] ArtemisimetrA@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago

I don't get it, were you a plate this whole time?

[–] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

Always demand restitution.

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