Totally fair gripe, and I have the same one with choice trees in most games. I don't mind little stuff that doesn't affect the longer game, but holy shit, if choice A or B is going to wildly change the outcome of the game / who I'm dating / if a character lives or dies / etc, either make it super obvious or flat out tell me! I'd LOVE to have a little info icon next to dialog choices that would say "FYI if you choose this option you're straight up rejecting any future romance with this char" or something. Immersion breaking? who cares! so is save scumming and a ton of other game mechanics. It's all for fun anyway, I'd rather know what I'm doing and not waste time.
Sorry, rant over :D
I plan on getting more involved in politics. Start with sitting in on local meetings, maybe run for an office at some point. Bernie and AOC suggested, sounds like a great idea.