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‘An uphill battle’: why are midlife men struggling to make – and keep – friends?
(www.theguardian.com)
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Do "normal" people really have 10 or more close friends? I've never had that many close friends my entire life.
I have had the same 15ish friends for more than 20 years and we live in different cities, a few hours away from each other.
We don't see each other frequently because of the distance, but we usually spend weekends together and it feels like we have not missed a beat since the last time we saw each other.
I think it is natural to have more than 10 close friends, it is like having a small community, but modern life made it very hard to keep close friends like that. And it sucks.