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What are the pronouns they/them in your language? (discuss.online)

submitted 3 days ago by IHatePepRallies@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'm learning Russian and I don't know what it is for that, but in German I've seen "xier", "sier", and "dey". I might use "dey/dem".

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Most European languages have no equivalent, since everything is gendered, not just pronouns. Efforts to embed equality in those languages go the other way - adding female gendered terms for male-dominated professions and vice-verse, as opposed to removing gender which is just too hard.

Russian in particular is spoken in places where they're hostile to the whole idea. They have a neuter gender, and you might see it used in a mocking "it" kind of way for queer people of all kinds.

For languages outside the Indo-European and Afro-Asiatic families it's usually a moot issue; 3/4 have no grammatical gender features at all.