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I started here so as to get an understanding, going to remark on a few things I saw:
I don't think this is them trolling you, (...)
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it reads like an earnest response and your reply looks like an overreaction. It just looks like you might have replied to the wrong person or misinterpreted the meaning of the comment? The comment reads to me as speculating on the reason for Trump flip-flopping, not making a value judgement besides calling the trade war with china 'dumbfuck'I'm actually primarily a .ml user, (...)
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I started using .ml because I like to get a variety of views and everyones propaganda for a given situation so that I can make my own critical assessment.I do hang out in their comms and even help moderate one but I've pretty much only ever lurked there to get an idea for the vibes and it feels weird to be lumped in together as me representing them. Maybe if you frame it as they have an instance where they allow comments (like mine) made by reckless individuals (like me) to be made without moderation it would be more accurate.
Really not a fan of SA analogies being used frivolously tbh, but you do you- (...)
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The "answering questions" sticks out, because that's what they're referring to as JAQing off elsewhere- it's not a hexbear specific term, nor is sealioning, that's just internet slang. I didn't see this thread posted anywhere else on hexbear to drive engagement, they just have relatively high traffic and users will be showing up in federated threads if they're not browsing local.
I feel like this kind of tips your hand a bit for the engagement. I get the impulse to assume bad faith, I do it often and it's something I'm working on tbh. Anyway, might be a moot point since you're banned, I'll get to this in the conclusion, but I think you were being overly confrontational, also going in treating this as a narrative space to be fought over going is probably why you're going to get a response reflecting that.
Regarding viciously imperialistic jingo in favor of Russia: shelling donbass
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It is verifiable fact that the cities in the separatist region were getting routinely shelled basically since 2014, I for one recall constantly hearing about that in that time period unless your conclusion is that they deserved it or that it was just crisis actors or some influence campaign something. Either way it's not jingoism to express that knowledge.
Regarding viciously imperialistic jingo in favor of Russia: opposition to NATO
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It's a common anarchist/communist position in all sorts of countries to oppose military alliances like NATO, not an example of russian jingoism- but I would also agree with their assessment that this war has been the result of a protracted civil war that's been happening since 2014. Post 2022 is that civil war bubbling over to include Russia directly.Regarding viciously imperialistic jingo in favor of Russia: Self determination
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Forced conscription is wildly unpopular no matter where you are, it's part of why people are opposed to wars in general. "Nazi Government that the US props up", "pogroms" from the previous comment- I want to link here this - Ukraine Found Complicit in 2014 Massacre By European Court of Human Rights I've just seen too many swastikas over the last 3 years to say this is anything but an unfair assessment.
Aren't you in favor of self-determination? I really wish things had simply de-escalated and followed that track rather than this nightmare. Anyway, none of this is jingoim.
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I'm actually trying to be impartial, my takeaway is it looks like you're just being overly antagonistic in the entire exchange. Your premise seems to be that they're fostering an insular culture because they censor truth-speakers like yourself, let's go back to the exchange that seemed to kick this off:
Ceasefires broadly speaking are going to be a process that's going to involve violations on both sides due to all sorts of reason until the situation stabilizes, in this case via diplomatic solution hopefully.
Nakoiochi's response is not jingoistic here either, I asked earlier in this essay if you support self-determination, you might also recognize that 'going home' might involve some staying to protect the separatist republics.
I might as well address the ban here too:
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I frankly found your iran/north korea comment in the log very hard to parse in the first place, but I did want to raise this exchange:
I get that this was sort of a low energy back and forth jab, but the reason they clapped you was because you basically jumped to (in slightly more elegant words) saying "what are you RUSSIAN?" at someone giving you a goad, and then it kind of spiraled after.
re: calling someone Russian for naysaying you-
Among Russians, we're not all going to have the same opinions, there's plenty of Russians (expats in particular) who would tow a line which conforms a lot more towards yours for example. There's no need to start calling out ethnic groups just because you feel like you're in a propaganda space that you need to defend. That's my read on why they responded with a ban, I will grant it's a bit heavy handed considering it's an offsite comment.
From what I've gathered in my time is there's a lot of Americans on the site rather than Russians. They have a lot of people on the site who are more interested in curating a comfortable space rather than having an active presence in this 'propaganda space' and would prefer continued defederation- they said as much in the last federation referendum, I don't think there's a coordinated propaganda effort at play.
I hope you enjoy my lengthy responses, I tried to summarize it from my reading and for what it's worth I tried to approach it as impartially as I could given the circumstances.
Yeah, I'm completely fine with a serious discussion about it, because you seem like you're capable of a serious discussion. So, right from the jump, the first comment they made:
That immediately to me is super offensive. Probably more so than pig shit pictures, definitely more so than me being condescending to them. Why? Because it is deliberate lies in service of killing. I still dealt with it factually, and I indicated I'd be open to a factual exchange. You want me to be nice about it also? Why would I do that? That doesn't seem like it's necessary.
I have no idea if that person actually thinks that Putin will honor a cease-fire, whether randomly unilaterally announced or not. It is clear to me that he will not. Actually, you seemed to acknowledge that they know he won't (saying that all of these cease-fires tend to fall apart and not be honored). There are plenty of cease-fires that get honored, definitely plenty that aren't broken on a huge scale right away on purpose.
Bottom line: I've known people from Ukraine. I've talked with them about their country getting torn apart, people they know getting killed, with an endless stream of lies coming from the other side about the reasons why and the things they can do to stop it from happening. I just don't have patience for it. My whole SA analogy is in absolutely no way frivolous. I think it's an absolutely spot-on way of expressing the horror of Russia claiming they're only blowing up apartment buildings and hospitals because someone might be trying to resist them or give a security guarantee, and they didn't like that, so they have every right to keep killing until they feel like stopping. And, someone on Lemmy saying the answer to that all is to stop arming Ukraine so they can't fight back anymore. I think it's disgusting, and I don't think I'm required to be nice when explaining why.
I don't think anyone on Hexbear has any right to request that someone not be "overly antagonistic" when they speak to them. For obvious reasons. The whole framing reeks of privilege and dishonesty, of creating rules for other people without any pretense that you're planning to follow them yourself.
I do think that some of the Hexbear people are just confused and going along with the herd in terms of their beliefs and behavior. The whole propaganda framing is pretty powerful. Calm conversation is "sealioning" and it's bad. Dissenting voices are conflated with bigotry, even if they have nothing to do with it, and so banning dissent is "protecting the space" from bigotry and just standing up for the oppressed which no other instance will do. Of course. There are all these words that get redefined as other different words, and all sorts of facts that aren't true that are repeated so aggressively and often that they start to get accepted, and so these things they believe and do start to make sense within the off-kilter light they're seen in.
Yes it is.
There are two narratives about shelling in Donbas:
I know that several times I've asked people who told me the first narrative to back it up, and they couldn't. They would send me sources that said one thing claiming it said something else, send me random Youtube videos that didn't actually prove anything, that kind of thing. I don't actually know whether it is the second narrative that's true, or whether it's sort of a "truth is somewhere in the middle" type of thing. It's hard to say, at least for me with as much as I've looked into it. But I definitely have seen several people who said it was the first thing and found out afterwards that they were talking purely out of their ass.
Uncritically saying that Moscow's narrative is definitely true is jingoistic. And actually, dealing with people who disagree by simply shouting them down in a pack is more or less a key component of jingoism to me. The fact that Moscow says the first narrative is what happened means absolutely nothing to me, since they generally lie about all kinds of things constantly. I touched on that in that big conversation (with no substantive response, go figure). I've never heard anyone outside of that bubble say that's what happened. And, like I said, even if it did happen exactly the way Moscow claims it did, that wouldn't excuse three years of mass killing in Ukraine. They've killed more Russian-speakers now, probably a hundred times over, by sending them into the meat grinder or just semi-accidentally bombing their homes in the course of the war, than anyone ever claimed had been killed in Donbas.
If someone is ethnically Russian in eastern Ukraine, and they're unhappy with the Kyiv government, there are means to deal with that other than starting a civil war.
This is a great example of what I was talking about. It's just lies. The underlying fact is true, the court did order Ukraine to pay some people because of what happened in the burning of the trade union building, but it's being summarized in a wildly misleading way. On purpose. To tell lies to justify slaughter.
I would actually really recommend that you read the actual judgement that they're summarizing here in this way. You tell me whether this page you linked me to is summarizing what the court actually found in an accurate way.
Like I say: I'm fine having a factual discussion about it, but I don't see why I would be obligated in any way to be nice to someone who doesn't want that and is also willing to be 10 times more offensive than I am when they're on the other side of the disagreement. To me that's not offensive, it's just fairness.
My suggestion was more from the direction of if you hope to be getting something from the conversation other than generating adrenaline, (I know I'm not always the best example of this) maybe you shouldn't be so antagonistic. The path you took resulting in a few back and forths, then you obliquely accused someone of being Russian and got banned. I don't think that trying to tie that in to a broader echo chamber narrative tracks from that either. The internet is full of places where people seek out others with similar politics, it seems like a simpler explanation for their ideological uniformity.
From what I could tell it was only two top level comments in 4 hours from hexbear, Sasuke's comment was entirely innocuous when it comes to the Ukraine war and you replied to it by soapboxing about hexbear broadly. I don't think that type of reaction really serves your own goals, it just makes you look like you're overreacting out of nowhere.
I don't think any of us can really know what's in Putins head, there's tons of other factors besides that which also will contribute to if a ceasefire holds. ie, how much control do both armies have over the individuals, are there miscommunications, do people continue to restrain themselves in spite of the violations, etc, them I don't think it's all down to one person if the ceasefire succeeds or fails.
I've also known many people from Ukraine over the years, you will forgive me if I don't give too many personal details, I don't think me supplying my own anecdotes would help anyways. You seem to feel very strongly about your position and don't seem very curious about why people might disagree.
I'm inclined to say somewhere in between, take for example the Donbass self defense forces, some of those were definitely Russian military and some of those were absolutely locals. Either way, they could not have survived without Russian military aid. However to say people are 'moscow funded' the equivalent is also true- the Ukraine government is US funded. Ukraines media is US funded.
I would say that if someone who's Russian was behaving in support of Russia the way I've seen a lot of pro-Ukraine lemmy users behave I would probably be more inclined to call it as jingoistic. Not to be edgy or anything, but I've been in my share of Russian telegram groups, I've been to family gatherings, I have run into my share of Russian jingoism. As near as I can tell the person you were responding to (Nakoiochi) is a US anarchist. They weren't calling them Khokols or Ukrops, pigs or gloating, they just mocked Trumps promises to fix this in 24hr because there is a standing offer that he could accept- unless he just has no control over the situation. (likely)
Either way a core component of jingoism is nationalism, and it feels weird to be accusing people of being nationalist for a different country, when they're an anarchist, just because you don't like their understanding of world events. I don't think people who are saying something that happens to be in agreement with the position of a particular nation are then necessarily nationalist as a result, especially if they're not even from there and in fact live in the geopolitical enemy.
In my previous response I asked twice about your position on self-determination, that wasn't me being flippant, but more trying to get at a core contradiction in the way separatist regions looking for self-determination have been treated. When it was Kosovo it was acceptable to allow for separatists to break away, do you think that it would have made the situation better for Russia to start dumping weapons on Serbia in that situation to help them counter the 'invasion' from Albania? It's a hypothetical and not really logistically feasible, but my point is more that this situation went from bad to worse because fuel has only been continually added to this fire rather than de-escalation.
Re: Odessa Trade union
The article I linked did include large sections from the reporting along with the broader context. There's details which are actively disputed; the point is not the grisly details which are always ripe for propaganda embellishment, but rather the points as laid out in the report. The picture painted is of a government which actively made the situation worse, and enabled those very Russian propaganda campaigns by their own complicity in the massacre and the subsequent investigation.
Quoting the report: (directly)
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The issue is it's hard to dismiss calling the Ukrainian government 'Nazi' when there's been this level of collaboration between right wing (in some cases openly nazi) gangs doing political terrorism to people. Those gangs are now a part of the military, as long as their military tolerates people running around with a black sun or whatever nazi paraphernalia it's just going to get photographed and circulated on Russian social media, feeding into that same propaganda campaign you yourself expressed an interest in combating.
Honestly my main goal is just to push back against their narrative. If they're going to come into my post's comments and spout propaganda I am going to speak on it. If I get banned, then well, that solves the problem of them mucking up my posts.
I actually don't think I would be doing anyone any favors by being excessively polite to them. There have been a few different writings recently about how engaging politely and purely-factually with this type of content on the internet is a mistake because it leaves room for them to decide what of your facts to engage with, when to just switch to abuse instead of responding, basically just gives them room to employ a bunch of tactics that are pretty effective at spreading their message. I'm still being factual with what I'm saying, but not really being nice to them, I think is fully justified and the right thing way to respond.
Again, if they felt like upholding their end of the social contract and agreeing not to be randomly abusive any time they don't like something in some other context, or have a serious discussion about what they're saying, it would be a totally different story. And like I say you will notice that I'm completely factual and happy to have a serious discussion about it if someone's up for that. I just don't think that my rudeness or not has the slightest bit to do with whether Hexbear people are going to respond with factual calm rational discussion.
That wasn't really the point of me saying that, although I can see it coming across that way.
Like you said, it was just kind of a low-effort response to a low-effort insult. Since they were engaged overall in boosterism for the Russian war, I was pointing out that the Russian military and government are fucking up the war. Nothing really deeper than that. I have no idea whether the person I was talking to was actually Russian and I wasn't aiming to imply that they were.
By that time, I'd read 13 comments by Hexbear people. That was the 14th. I'm not going to give a calm patient response to every single one. They'd also come in and made 172 upvotes for each other's content.
That's the point that I was making. From the POV of the Hexbear monoculture, I know it might seem "out of nowhere" or like it's not clear what behavior I'm reacting to, but you'll notice that 100% of the people who reacted to my comment upvoted it. I think they generally know exactly what "let's all gang up and say the same things and upvote each other" behavior I'm talking about when I point at the comments with their Hexbear participation and refer to it as a problem.
This is also what I was saying about talking reasonably about the merits of the argument, after the 14th browbeating comment or whatever, being a losing game. I'm fine with talking with someone who's up for talking about stuff, but that's generally not what goes on in Hexbear threads.
I've already gone through it with a lot of people. I was completely curious at the beginning. Anyone who wants to show me something that's a strong argument on the other side, I'm completely into, and I really will look at it, as I did your source about the Trade Union fire. But my experience is that they generally don't do that, they just yell and repeat the same types of framings. And also give me abuse, and tell me what I believe and ignore me when I say I believe some other thing. So I'm fine at this point just stating my side. You'll notice that I very directly addressed what the first Hexbear person said, in the thread, and only after a few messages with them totally ignoring what I was saying did I just say okey dokey and start clapping back.
Yeah, all makes perfect sense, I 100% agree with this.
If I think their understanding is based on lies and propaganda, then that's how I will call it. Where they come from and who they are isn't all that relevant to me, I'm just basing it on what they say. If it is jingo in service of some government I'll call it accordingly if I see it that way.
My position is very different from how regions "have been treated" by the big powers. Generally I just support free individual people above whatever state entity. I think Palestine has a clear right to self-determination and anyone on the Israel side who's been taking it away (even before the full-scale slaughter started late last year) should be in prison at a minimum. I don't have a clear position on Kosovo or Chechnya just because I don't know that much about them, but the massive contradiction between how Russia reacted in Chechnya versus Donbas is one example of why I don't take their narrative on anything seriously at all.
I don't think Moscow intervening in Donbas had anything at all to do with free people's self-determination. Like I said, I get it if someone from there feels like they're badly represented in Kyiv, but having automatic weapons flow in from outside so that they won't have to honor the government that won their country's election and can seize some government buildings and declare themselves free people is guaranteed to make things ten times worse for everyone involved. And look, it did, look at all the piles of corpses now.
The US are pros at this stuff too, we basically wrote the playbook on using that tactic to destabilize a country. Honduras and Venezuela recently, and then going back a few decades, it's half or more of Central America. That's fucked up also. I don't like it when the US does it or when Russia does it, it is a crime against democracy and generally a prelude to mass murder. There is no contradiction in terms of what I think, at least that I'm aware of. If you feel like the US State Department is being hypocritical in saying it's unfair to destabilize a country and install a friendly leader even if that kills a bunch of people, because that's what they do, then I will 100% agree with that, but you have to take it up with them not with me.
Does that address the question? It's a fair question but I feel like you're assuming similarity that isn't there, between my POV and the State Department's POV.
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Absolutely wrong. This is where I think you didn't read the report carefully enough.
So the summary story says that the Ukraine government empowered fascist thugs to slaughter anti-Maidan protestors and strangle a pregnant woman and so on, and they were found guilty by the EHCR court.
The actual court finding was that against a backdrop of periodic deadly street violence related to anti-Maidan elements trying to overthrow the local government, some anti-Maidan protestors conducted an attack with live ammunition against a pro-Maidan demonstration, then the pro-unity people got the upper hand in the ensuing firefight / riot, the anti-Maidan people took refuge in a building, both sides threw molotov cocktails at each other, a big fucking fire started, and a bunch of people on all sides died including because of failures by local authorities (which caused understandable upset which was then compounded by failures of the Ukraine government during the investigation).
That part of it is basically the total opposite of what your article says, with the only true parts being "failures by the Ukrainian authorities" and "confirmed and found guilty."
Again: I have no real idea of the underlying facts, I'm reading about this incident for the first time. But it is extremely easy to just read the EHCR report, and see for myself that covertactionmagazine.com is lying about what it contains, and I feel pretty safe in the judgement that they're probably lying about other things too.
I think that covers most of it, let me know if I missed something, as I'm trying to be detailed in addressing what you're saying without getting too dug down in minutiae.
That's fair, I could stand to be a little more charitable on that front.
For me it helps to put some of these things in a sequence of events. First the US/EU actually supported the Russian response in Chechnya, I think it was Bill Clinton made an analogy to the US civil war, especially after all the terrorist attacks it wasn't totally out of place. The warcrimes, high civilian death toll and brutal crackdowns after didn't really cause that sympathy to last long after. I don't recall that there were even any sanctions.
Kosovo came roughly after that, and the US supporting the separatist movement is what I was referencing as that was the break from what was 'normal' for separatist regions. That's not to say that people in separatist regions shouldn't be able to express themselves, but that it wasn't the standard for how world leaders treated breakaway regions until then. Now that new standard (set by the US) has been followed by Russian in Ukraine.
I'm sure on some level it's more a pretext than a principled stance on separatism by Russia, but also it reflects an earnest sentiment from people in eastern Ukraine.
I did quote the official report for them in that response, in fact I only referenced so as not to include the editorializing.
This is what I meant by complicity- failing to be transparent and diligent in investigating something serious, like murders, can look like you're favoring one side. This reminds me of people in the US being mad at cops when they kill people, not because people think all cops are conspiring to kill black people (or whoever), but there's a sentiment that they will turn a blind eye and protect cops who misbehave.
Also as not a total aside as a trans russian, but to give you an analogy for the understanding that state powers will instrumentalize any struggle, national or otherwise, for geopolitical ends. Take same sex marriage-only 14% of Ukrainians support legalizing it. In Russia, it's 9%. Both places are queerphobic as fuck, to a much greater extend than even the worst red states in the US, Russia is mostly just more mask-off about it than Ukraine.
Despite that you would see Azov routinely attacked gay bars, there have been amnesty international reports about this since 2014 when the west started integrating the more fascist UA elements to their ends. That pride parades can only happen in Kiev when it is walled off from the frothing, fascist mob is in part NATO's fault. That assaults on queer people by azov are practically never persecuted, that is at least partially due to their patronage from the west. Once the war started it was full steam painting Ukraine as pro-lgbt while they were pressing trans women fleeing the fighting into service because they were "men."
That is not to excuse the ridiculous amount of anti-queer sentiment in Russia. The hunting down of queer people under Ramzan Kadyrov in the Russian province of Chechnya was probably the worst act of homophobic violence since many decades, we're talking about thousands of people getting murdered by government death squads who spied on them on dating sites. After the murders, Kadyrov joked in front of the international press why they were asking about a persecution of gay people, "there are no gay people in Chechnya."
Like that shit was appalling and largely absent from western discourse before the war.
I don't care. Like I said, the State Department's viewpoint means nothing to me. Clinton presided over a whole lot of terrible fuckery.
Like I said, world leaders are almost as hypocritical on this issue as Russia is. They basically, for the most part, say whatever's in their best interests and often invest significant effort into inflaming this kind of "breakaway" region into a way to completely ruin whatever country and collapse it into a war in which they try to put their guy on top once it's all over. That's absolutely nothing to do with me.
It's wrong when the US does it, wrong when Russia does it. Not complicated.
I wasn't editorializing. For an example, a quote is:
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Exactly 100% backwards. They are lying on purpose. Again, I don't see why I would need to be friendly to that or to anyone who's posting it.
That is actually what the judgement said. That's not what the covertactionmagazine article said. What it said was that they strangled a pregnant woman to death with an electrical cord and drew a swastika with her blood on the wall. That's the difference I'm highlighting.
Yes, absolutely. Which is why I have very little patience for any random individual who wants to instrumentalize whatever struggle in the same way, whichever state they're stumping for. They're not on your side, you don't need to help them do that.