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I just offer the back of my hand, below the height of her head, a couple feet away, then hold still. To the cat, it's a very non-threatening position, and they can decide whether to engage or not. (I usually get to pet the kitty!)
Don't forget to slow blink at the kitty and look away for a bit every now and then.
Oh - and, looking slightly away from them, yawn widely with your eyes closed, then lick your lips a few times.