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Have you seen any trans people at these nudist spaces? I've been interested by the idea a few times, but always got put off by the fact that I felt it would make me incredibly dysphoric
YMMV depending on where exactly you go, but the place I usually go to has a trans employee who usually works the front desk and sometimes bartends
And one band that performs there pretty regularly has a trans singer. Most of the bands and such they book there keep their clothes on, she was the exception.
And I think this says a lot, because she was up on stage performing for a couple hours, I probably walked right by her about six times before I noticed that she had a penis, and the only reason I did was because the rest of the band fucked off for a few minutes to get a drink or something and she stayed up on stage singing for a while and I finally realized that the deep voice that had been singing was coming from her
So you really quickly stop taking notice of people's genitals there. That's all that I've personally noticed but there very well might have been tons more and I just didn't notice. Definitely no shortage of other LGBQ folks around there though.