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[โ€“] daannii@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

DL

Short for down low.

Never really hear it anymore.

Also

The bomb.

No one says that anymore.

And

Phat.

To refer to a thick gorgeous woman.

[โ€“] Nusm@peachpie.theatl.social 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Phat.

That has morphed into thicc.

[โ€“] daannii@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I recall "Phat" being problematic. Especially since it was applied to thicker women.

Since it sounds like "fat", its use was generally followed with a "phat with a p" to clarify.

Making the short slang word void for being used easily and casually.

I did respect the approach of trying to change a word that's usually used to demean someone as a way to complement someone. But it just didn't stick.

[โ€“] djdarren@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago

Phat to me in the '90s meant either good, or big. But specifically big, gnarly stuff. Like jumping your mountain bike and getting phat air.