this post was submitted on 18 Apr 2026
-24 points (16.7% liked)
Asklemmy
54335 readers
194 users here now
A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions
Search asklemmy ๐
If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!
- Open-ended question
- Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
- Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
- Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
- An actual topic of discussion
Looking for support?
Looking for a community?
- Lemmyverse: community search
- sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
- !lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities
~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~
founded 7 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
You're welcome to your opinion, but what's funny is that I live in Oakland in a household of three on a joint income of $160k. We live in a two bedroom apartment near Lake Merritt that costs $2500 per month. And we're pretty comfortable.
It sounds like you and I are neighbors. If you're having a harder time than I am I don't want to invalidate your experience. But not everyone who feels financially constrained is poor, imo.
Oakland is not SF. Oakland is where people move to save money because they're too poor for SF, lmao. $2500 for a 2BR is cheap.