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[–] TheFresh16@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

my biggest hurdle is somehow believing that every trans person is valid except for myself, honestly I guess it's just believing that everyone in general is valid except for me.

[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 4 points 2 weeks ago

I'm not trans, but I often tell myself variants of "You can be shitty and still valid."

I don't know if that helps, but it helps me sometimes. My identities, my problems, my solutions, can be valid without needing to have a high opinion of myself, which I'm often loathe to accede to.

[–] rain_worl@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

, says the valid