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Please don't expect the community to give you answers to your questions which you then delete right afterwards. Those of us who put time into answering your questions are not doing so just to serve your personal needs, we are here to help build a community knowledge base that others can search and reference.

This has become a chronic issue with Lemmy and its starting to feel like it's a waste of time to answer questions.

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[–] Artisian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I mean; the mechanics ensure that it kinda is. Are these good mechanics?

This is a major 'upside' to centrally controlled spaces, they are tricky to exploit in several ways. I don't think that maintaining a open community with both:

  • Easy exploits;
  • Social norms against using them;

is effective.

Either the exploitation is a feature that we accept, or we should rework the feature. Behavior is downstream of systems. How should we change the delete-post system?

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Okay I'm just gonna call somebody out - Imperious_melange just deleted a thread with over 200 upvotes where a thriving discussion was underway. It was about whether people perceived a pro-China and anti-west sentiment on Lemmy. I tried to post a reply and the site said "deleted by creator". The thread was just gone. They also seem to have deleted their account, so I can't even PM them. That's all just a huge dick move.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 194 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

It doesn't make sense, either. There's no rational reason to delete a thread after the question has been answered.

Even if it wasn't actually a person but was an AI agent asking questions so it can scrape the data from the answers, there's no real utility in deleting the posts after receiving responses. It just seems so weird.

[–] tburkhol@slrpnk.net 56 points 1 week ago (26 children)

Could they be astroturfing, looking for a specific solution to fill search engines with their own product placement, then deleting because most of the comments are other FOSS solutions?

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Somebody pointed out that the person might be afraid they gave so much info that their post gets de-anonymized - but IMO people afraid of that shouldn't post on public forums to begin with.

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[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 72 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Has that been happening a lot here?

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 104 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Lemmy in general, yes. Here in self hosted at least a couple of times that I've seen. Including earlier today. But I don't interact on every post.

I only find out because sometimes I like to go back to posts I comment on and see what additional information people have offered. (There's always something to learn.) Then I find the post has been deleted.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 93 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I absolutely detest how on lemmy deleting a post also nukes access to the comments. They’re still there, but there’s no way in many normally lemmy UI to get to them.

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[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 25 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Is there any way for a community to disallow post deletion? If not, this seems like a needed feature.

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[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 63 points 1 week ago (7 children)

People do that? That's fucked up...

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

No, they don't.

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[–] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 61 points 1 week ago (11 children)
[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 35 points 1 week ago (9 children)
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[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago

Wow a lot of those mod-deleted posts were very interesting for me

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[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 47 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Have you checked the modlogs to see if the posts you're talking about were deleted by the mods? The mods here seem to really not want this community to be a support community and will delete it under Rule 3.

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[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 47 points 1 week ago (4 children)

we need to make a list of usernames who are deleting their posts, regularly or even just twice

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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 44 points 1 week ago (10 children)

I just want to apologize for being the person who asks questions and then doesn't respond to the comments. I get overwhelmed D: but I'd never delete my post, what's the purpose in that?

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[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 40 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Well OP. Looks like your post resulted in a moderator resigning and the appointment of two new moderators in this community. As I've said previously, it was a moderator removing posts for a very far stretch interpretation of Rule 3, and not users deleting them after getting the answer.

Let's hope this results in a better community for the selfhosters here.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 39 points 1 week ago (12 children)

I don't get it. why are they deleting their posts?

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Hadn't noticed, but wow. I wonder what the motivation is to delete info that would help other people.

[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 week ago

"fuck you got mine"

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I've never understood why the OP can nuke an entire thread full of comments. Not even reddit is that obtuse.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

They didn't

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[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago (7 children)

This is the same thing as posting on a forum a question, then saying never mind I figured it out WITHOUT STATING THE ANSWER! When googling shit and coming across this back in the day I would get more mad at those than my issue.

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[–] whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago

Yes! This drives me crazy. I will sometimes go back and edit posts to add more info months later.

We have all been in a situation where we are looking for a very specific answer, and the answer only exists in one obscure forum from a decade ago that has the exact info we are looking for.

It's hard enough to ensure lemmy's long-term fidelity without people axing their own content.

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