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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 41 points 1 day ago

Honestly doesn't even register any more. They're massive, they dominate the landscape. Your eye is drawn by the gravity. It happens

Hell, my own grandmother confessed to me once after we ran into each other at a shopping centre her first thought was "good lord that woman has large breasts" and then she saw my face and recognised me.

a quick glance? no worries, I'm a lesbian and am certainly guilty of the same. repeated glances or staring is rude and absolutely changes how I treat you in a pretty negative way.

[–] Skanky@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago

As a man who like boobs of all sizes, I can't help but glance sometimes. You are all beautiful. Sorry, not sorry.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

I'm small of bust, but therefore don't bra often (except at work) so occasionally get a look, I am neither flattered nor offended. I work on my body but boobs are just luck or money, not an accomplishment.

[–] Squirrelsdrivemenuts@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Very different depending on how I have dressed. High collar or sweater or professional wear, I think you are aweful. Low-cut shirt, bikini, cute outfit, I'm expecting and tolerating you. I only get happy when it's my boyfriend staring.

[–] hpx9140@fedia.io 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Frankly id just like to know what your beef with squirrels is

[–] Squirrelsdrivemenuts@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

I just love them too much.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago

My wife has big boobs. Sometimes she shows them off on purpose, but even when she doesn't, they're big and round and nice to look at. She says if people are going to look, at least be inconspicuous about it and not stare.

That said, I know other women who have felt cursed by their big boobs because everywhere they go, they're ogled without their consent. Which is also fair. Just because some women are okay with it, doesn't mean I'm entitled to check everyone out.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I worked hard enough to get them, I'm glad when anyone looks at them! Most people don't though because they're not very big

[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 30 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] joyjoy@piefed.social 16 points 1 day ago

ABBA: all boobs be awesome

[–] davad@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Assigned Boobs At Birth?

[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago
[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Bold to assume anyone can avoid looking at my tranny rack. What do I do when they don't look is the better question. Yeah, go look, pervs.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why are you only asking the women? /s

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I'm a man with moobies. Ask me anything!

[–] Goodeye8@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How do you feel when men or women glance at your moobies?

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm a little dissapointed they don't stare more, lick their lips and wink at me.

I'm happily married, so nothing would ever come of it, but it would still be nice.

[–] X@piefed.world 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

What’s your solution for Russell’s paradox?

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Something like "sets that aren't even hypercomputable aren't real". Inventing proper classes, which are like sets but randomly can't go in other things, is a pretty lame solution, anyway. Although, it can probably emulate the former approach, and it's easy to describe.

Source: I have some flab some places.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

mathematical expressions are evaluated on a computer hardware (the brain), that in "normal" cases eventually converges on a result. but sometimes it starts oscillating instead.

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

To rely on people more competent than me on such matters of importance.

[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What's your opinion of jazz?

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Absolutely love it. From Robert Johnson to Herbie Hancock and everything in between. Let me know if you need any specific recomendations.

[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Who's the most basic jazz artist? the one everyone knows and yet everyone kinda looks down on. Who's the The Red Hot Chili Peppers of jazz?

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have heard of Kenny G, which is a strong indicator of basicness. Gonna give him a spin. I yearn for the peoples' jazz.

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

He is quite talented, though polarizing. I like him as a musician more than I like his music.

But he is undoubtedly very talented.

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 2 points 20 hours ago

That is the fairest description of Kenny G I believe I have ever heard.

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[–] kreskin@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

To be excellent to yourself and others and to party on!

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[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Men: Ew

Women: Very context dependent

[–] liuther9@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Just look at it. Adore it. It is your life and nobody can dictate you how to live it. don't touch them though

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

i enjoy and encourage it :3

half the time i'm wearing see-through tops with no bra soooooo yeah lol

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