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[–] dawcas@scribe.disroot.org 5 points 1 day ago

People answering "AI says...". They turned themselves into meat AI bridges.

[–] GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 days ago (4 children)

The public acceptance of gambling. It's fucking everywhere. Even things that seem relatively innocuous on the surface, like trading cards or blind boxes, are less about the fun of collecting and more about the rush of ripping through multiple packs or boxes to focus on the resell value.

I never imagined a world where we can easily bet on natural disasters and cancer on a whim. Please fire me into the sun.

[–] ThunderComplex@lemmy.today 6 points 2 days ago

Yeah and also that gambling is normalized on two fronts: For adults we’re normalizing betting on fucking everything like if it’s gonna rain tomorrow,
And for children we’re normalizing gambling in video games. Gambling used to be a niche, almost something you’d be ashamed of. „I lost my money on the ponies“ would be something you’d tell your best friends when talking about your dark past.

[–] Soulinyx@piefed.world 2 points 2 days ago

There's a great irony that MLB banned Pete Rose for life until his death from baseball or getting into the hall of fame. Only for them to openly embrace gambling.

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Over under on your body's liquification time on approach to the sun?

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 11 points 1 day ago

Post-Brexit Britain

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Flagrant acts of racism.

Portland pretends to be better than that, but I keep having casual reminders that we're really white-coded. A black guy walks into the liquor store at 10:00 am and both the women behind the counter have a collective sense of panic when I'm walking up to check out. There was nothing off about him. They just had some immediate sense that he intended harm. The one checking me out said, under her breath, "oh, I thought we were getting robbed".

It was obvious the dude noticed their reaction, and it made me feel fucking horrible.

[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Oregon previously being an entire sundown state combined with the hippie invasion of the valley definitely resulted in some odd outcomes as far as race relations go.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 95 points 2 days ago (9 children)

People being 'anti-science.'

I grew up with Star Trek and old school science fiction stories where the rulers were 'The Council Of Science' or some such. There used to be a Presidential Science Advisor in the White House.

[–] Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works 42 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Man, 2020 (Covid) was so depressing with all that. Nurses not wearing masks and denying the effectiveness of vaccines was such a kick in the crotch for my morale.

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[–] Krusty@quokk.au 12 points 2 days ago (5 children)

The problem with science is that consensus changes but often with tremendous lag.

The whole anti-fat movement I grew up in, for instance. It never made sense to me so I've always been a fan of fat. I always eat my chicken skins, always eat (at least chew) the fat on my steaks.

People used to worry about cholesterol a lot but then we found out dietary cholesterol doesn't really matter for most people.

Turns out sugar is a lot worse than fat for you. Which they knew back then but industries being what they are ... They use money to influence the research. Now they're finally removing the refined sugars but now they're pumping like three, four maybe five artificial sweeteners in there and pretty much all of them are linked to various problems...

That's great for science, when done honestly, it's striving to be better and it can change when it needs to. But these days there's a lot of bad science out there and it can be difficult to discern what is good science from what is total bullshit.

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[–] Soulinyx@piefed.world 2 points 2 days ago

The entire 2020 pandemic convinced me as to how many people who did not trust science. It was the biggest dying on the inside moment I have ever had.

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[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Is it too obvious to say a Hitler-like figure running a country I thought such things couldn't happen in?

Okay, less political answer: reality shows that go too far with exploiting people. An early season of Big Brother had long lost siblings find out they were siblings on tv. Such moments shoukd be private. There was a reality show where a guy thought he was called for jury duty but it was all fake. I don't understand how it's even legal to film a reality show without telling the guy he's in a reality show. There was a reality show where a woman has to guess who her biological father is. that's not something we should be making a game of.

[–] monotremata@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The reality show that freaked me out was Solitary. It ran on Fox from 2006-2010. No healthy society would ever allow something like this to exist as a form of entertainment. https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2008/03/voluntary-confinement/

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I didn't know about that one. That's disturbing

[–] monotremata@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago

It's so disturbing. I actually saw part of an episode of it at the time, and I watched, thinking, "they can't actually mean that, right?" But it seriously is just footage of these people being tortured, with some vaguely sci-fi looking sets. I have no idea how this got approved, and every so often I'm reminded of it, and I think, "god, was that real?" I'm glad that Mother Jones article exists, because otherwise I think people would never believe it.

[–] TheBlindPew@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

On the jury one the guy knew he was being filmed the whole time, they just mislead him to believe that the trial was real and the subject of the reality show and that the rest of the jury weren't actors when in reality he was the only person in the show who was not aware that the whole show was staged to look real

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[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 47 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Trump's second term, specifically. The bar is in free fall and apparently rock bottom is not the lowest you can go.

Reminds me of the south park episode of honey boo boo. The bar just keeps sinking... Someone send James Cameron out to do what James Cameron does best, being James Cameron. So he can go pick up the bar at the bottom of the ocean.

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[–] echo@lemmy.today 55 points 2 days ago (19 children)

Trump as president? and again?

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 43 points 2 days ago (15 children)

How selfish and cruel people openly are.

Blows my mind how common it is nowadays.

The shit that comes out of stranger's mouths to me shocks me on a weekly basis now. Years ago it probably shocked me on a once every couple of months basis.

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[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Conspiracy theory nuts start to get big bucket things right. Like a giant cabal of child sex traffickers running global political and financial systems, including Hollywood.

I mean, it's pretty much just that one so far, but damned if that wasn't an evergreen theory over the last few decades.

[–] Cricket@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This reminds me of a Belgian case that implicated their elites in child sexual abuse in the mid-90s, yet the alleged wider network was never fully investigated. It always surprised me that that case wasn't referred to when the whole Epstein case blew up in the media given the parallels of the elites being involved.

WARNING: VERY DISTURBING STORY (makes Epstein look like a saint) https://torontosun.com/news/world/crime-hunter-how-high-up-did-killer-belgian-pedo-ring-go

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[–] anothermember@feddit.uk 32 points 2 days ago (21 children)

Over the course of my life, DRM-restricted streaming services. I once thought people would be naturally against that. You're going to want to have your own copy of media you love to keep forever, right? Apparently I was wrong.

[–] Cricket@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 days ago

I can kind of understand DRM in subscription streaming services. What I don't understand at all is people paying to "buy" DRM-protected media where you don't even get a local copy, like all major digital movie purchase platforms.

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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 11 points 2 days ago

Reports on the high rates of illiteracy and semiliteracy among American adults.

News reports on measles outbreaks.

[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago

The US government going all out to destroy the renewable energy industry. I knew the coal and oil industries would lobby like crazy, to their death. But I naively thought that once we hit the critical point where renewable are more cost efficient than fossil fuels even the conservatives would begrudgingly start pivoting towards them.

Every time I hear solar being belittled by a government official, or wind turbine referred to absurdly as cancer-causing windmills by a certain fake-tan narcissist, it reinforces the sad realization that our country is filled with ignorant people, and our planet is being destroyed purely to stroke the egos and fatten the wallets of the ultra rich.

[–] Abyssian@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

My penis. When I was 600lbs and couldn't see it I longed for the day I could look. I kept working out and kept losing weight and... kept not seeing it. Finally I got down to 120lbs. I can see it now. I wish I hadn't.

I'm thinking about going back to massive overeating to hide my greatest shame back underneath what I used to think was my greatest shame, but after these last several years of making myself vomit to lose the weight my throat's just too sore to eat much.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

AI generated music, images, and videos.

[–] vane@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 1 points 1 day ago

A harsh reality.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's a really weird billboard by my house that always shows religious alt-right stuff. The one I'm thinking of in particular is the 'abortion undo pills'.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 days ago

Like, if you took a morning-after pill, you can take an after-morning-after pill?

[–] LeftReddit2@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Ads in your fucking web browser. I tried searching up something and got a "Sponsored" recommendation. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 days ago

Gmail has ads that look like unread emails so that you’ll be tricked into clicking the ad. They appear partially down the list so that when you’re checking each email to trash them all you’ll click where the checkbox would be but you’re actually clicking on the ad.

Full disclosure: I run an email service called Port87. If I ever thought tricking my users into clicking ads was ok, I think I’d just go ahead and throw myself off a bridge.

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