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I wont go too far into my story because it is too hard right now. But sadly and suddenly i am facing homelessness due to transphobic family members. I am currently safe staying at a hotel for the night, but i have no job so i cant afford too many hotel stays.

I have an appointment with my therapist later this morning and i am feeling ok, all things considered and i havnt thought at all about hurting myself (and that isnt something i have a history of). I am fortunately at a fairly stable point in my life and i believe i can make it through this. But i know i cant do it alone.

I am currently trying to reach out to friends for support and i have the phone number to a shelter line but i am scared of going to one. I am hopeful that i can find something temporary but i am trying to look at every option.

I am not asking for handouts or anything like that. I know there is a mutual aid com if it comes to needing assistance if all else fails.

What i am asking for is advice from anyone that has faced this situation. Just... anything. I dont even know what to ask. I feel so lost. At least i grabbed one of my sharks before the cops escorted me out. Which is good bc i am very sad girl right now. I think i will go cry. Thanks for listening

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[–] kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 35 minutes ago* (last edited 34 minutes ago)

we're super tired so we'll write more soon-ish, but what we will say is to keep comfy in a way you can keep up.

shorky is a very good first step, plushies are an entry that is rather high on our "grab and get the hell out" list! they are one of the few things that kept us sane when we were homeless. you are very wise.

more will come soon! but for the time being, you got this.