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[–] YragNitram1956@feddit.uk 27 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I need some advice, regarding some other elements of God's Laws and how to follow them.

  1. Leviticus 25:44 states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighbouring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?
  2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?
  3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of Menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15: 19-24. The problem is how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offence.
  4. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odour for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbours. They claim the odour is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?
  5. I have a neighbour who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the police to do it?
  6. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination, Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I do not agree. Can you settle this? Are there 'degrees' of abomination?
  7. Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I must admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?
  8. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?
  9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?
  10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two diverse kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14) I know you have studied these things extensively and thus enjoy considerable expertise in such matters, so I am confident you can help. Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.
[–] gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago

lmao that's hilarious. saved to my disk! yeah i think that religion is like ... how do i say this, like you're asking an antique person to build an electric vehicle for you ... they have neither the tools nor the knowledge to do it properly. it's quite bizarre to think that people refuse the progress of time, and especially the progress of society by clinging onto principles of the past.

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[–] FuglyDuck@lemmy.world 92 points 5 days ago (10 children)

Ironically, biblical morality is absolutely fucked in the head.

Killing women because they didn’t scream while they were raped (probably because the uncle or father or brother raping them was either choking them out or holding a knife to their throat or something worse.)

Killing infants and unborn children because someone 3 generations ago did a thing.

Stoning teenagers for being, you know, teenagers.

It really is a good thing morality doesn’t come from god.

[–] Equinox1289@sh.itjust.works 41 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

Sending bears after teenagers because they called you bald once is crazy Elisha.

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[–] SirLeToet@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

The best part is when God goes " see that guy over there, he believes so much in me, i will torment him beyond reason to proof his dedication to me"

There are so many of these terrible examples of god being this huge asshole. When i read the bible in my early teens, it was reading the bible that 'made me an atheist'. Seeing that people took this asshole god serious.

Over the years i did get to learn more about Jesus, he is the proto-hippy about sharing love and kindness. But somehow, very few christians follow up on his words and teachings. Christians actively chosing to be assholes when they have Jesus as a deity in their mythological fanfinction. It boggles the mind.

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[–] imvii@lemmy.ca 27 points 4 days ago (1 children)

We evolved into social creatures - apes together strong. The group becomes weak if we are always knocking down or killing our neighbour. If we all work together and gather bananas, then we can feed those in the group who can not gather bananas. Healthy ape brains receive pleasure helping other apes (and animals) in need.

Of course it all falls apart when we have malfunctioning ape brains in the group who promote hate, greed, and fairy stories of a magic sky ape or we have Musk ape, Trump ape and Zucker Ape who want all the bananas.

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[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 19 points 4 days ago (5 children)

I think it’s a bit more complex than this.

I think, in religious households, instead of being taught to be a good caring person you are taught to be as selfish as possible while staying within the rules.

So it’s not that religious need eternal threat of damnation, it’s that they have been taught to be as selfish as possible.

So I don’t think they lack morality naturally but they have been taught to be horrible people who obey laws.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

That's a remarkably good point

It's conspicuous how adept the religious are at mental gymnastics

I always thought that it was because were looking for ways to justify their shitty behaviour, it never occurred to me that that was a taught thing

That makes it so much worse...

[–] gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago

So I don’t think they lack morality naturally but they have been taught to be horrible people who obey laws.

it would be interesting to do an A/B testing study where one takes the people who would typically grow up in a religious household and places them in a household completely without religious indoctrination, and see whether they turn out better or worse.

i mean, there's lots of correlation studies that already prove that "christians" in the US are shitheads. and that people who don't identify as christians are typically morally superior in basically any metric. the question is: does that imply causation?

i.e. a possible mechanism is that the really worst people in society need religion to not be even worse people, i.e. you don't see how bad it would get if there was no religion. that's a possibility that has to be seriously considered. i'm honestly not sure what would be found out.

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[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 28 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Penn Jillette has a good explanation. I don't agree with a lot he says, but this is pretty spot on. (The clip goes kinda off the answer after about a minute)

tl;dw: If you I don't believe in a god, what's stopping me from raping and killing anyone I want? And the answer is: I have. I already have. I have raped and killed everyone I want to rape and kill, and the answer is............. zero. There are zero people I want to rape or kill. And the question becomes: Who are these people walking around with lists of people they want to rape and kill? Why do we consider THEM the sane ones?

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[–] potatohead@feddit.org 7 points 3 days ago

It makes me feel nice to do good things and be nice to others. I usually go by that.

[–] eurodyne@piefed.world 41 points 5 days ago

It’s much easier to be a good person when you aren’t indoctrinated from birth with some book of ancient myths telling you who to hate.

Mutual respect, it isn't fucking difficult.

It starts with "I don't want to die so if you won't kill me, I won't kill you" and just incrementally grows from there.

[–] Objection@lemmy.ml 21 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (12 children)

Is an action good because God commands it, or does God command it because it is good?

If it's the first one, then all you're saying is "God commands what God commands," and assigning "good" to that is meaningless. If God commanded you to do evil things, then you would have to just blindly accept that as "good."

If it's the second one, then you acknowledge that there's a source of morality independent of God that you're judging God's commands against to determine that his commands are good. At that point, you're in the same place as the atheist, and it raises the question of why we need to listen to God as opposed to just going to the source.

This argument literally predates Christianity. But most religious people just think that philosophy doesn't apply to them and that the answer to every philosophical question is just "Jesus."

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[–] elbiter@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago

Religious idiot wanting to sound smart. A classic.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

We're atheists and have raised our son (almost 10) as such, but always answer any questions he has about religion, especially since he hears it in school. He has no qualms telling friends he doesn't believe in God and one friend told him he was going to hell. This was essentially my statement for him to use in the future andI love that he has no fear expressing himself.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

When my son was around 9-10 he came home from school one day and said "everyone on the bus believes in god but me". To note, its a small bus he rides. I felt bad, was a bit upset this convo happened, but I guess its good. The conversation didnt sway him, and I did let him go to church even one time with his "big brother" from a program. He didnt want to go back. I was so conflicted what I would do if he wanted to. But thankfully, he's just no interest in pretend people, and isnt afraid to speak his mind on the matter.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

He was so excited one day last year to find out a friend of his was like us. I asked for clarification and he said he didn't believe in God either.

[–] NEZ27@lemmy.zip 18 points 5 days ago (4 children)

That Golden Rule. If you wouldn't like it done to you, don't do it to someone else.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

absolutely wild how many people out there will blast me with eye melting LED headlights and then get all pissy when I turn my halogen highbeams on

I think they missed the memo

[–] ContriteErudite@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (5 children)

I also hate how bright modern headlamps are and agree that it's a potentially painful annoyance at best, and a huge safety issue at worst.

If you're in the U.S., a study has been mandated and a bill introduced to take steps towards setting brightness limits for auto manufacturers. If this is an issue you care about, consider reaching out to your Congressmen and let them know you want them to support the bill and study mandate introduced earlier this year:
https://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/house-bill/7772/committees
https://gluesenkampperez.house.gov/posts/gluesenkamp-perezs-amendment-passes-house-appropriations-committee-to-investigate-overly-bright-headlights

Most drivers don't choose how bright their headlights are or how they're calibrated. Most modern vehicles come with super-bright LEDs, and because of the popularity of larger SUVs and trucks (which is a different conversation) those lights are about a foot higher off the road. Realistically, we can't expect individual owners to replace or modify factory headlights on their own. If we want the problem to improve we will need stronger industry regulations or financial incentives.

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[–] 5too@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (3 children)

If in doubt, remember what Granny Weatherwax said:

'And sin, young man, is when you treat people as things. Including yourself. That’s what sin is.’

I have yet to find a counterexample.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (3 children)

That's a good rule of thumb, but it runs into difficulty when you map it to the marco scale.

Whether we're talking individual human capacity (Dunbar's Number) or a question of public policy (for instance, in the Trolley Problem scenario) or even just common accounting and logistics principles, people become indistinguishable from things in significantly large numbers and anonymous contexts.

Bureaucracy has a de-humanizing effect on individuals. But bureaucracy is fundamental to administration of large populations. I don't know how you square this circle without committing some degree of "sin".

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[–] Boppel@feddit.org 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Nature has essentially built a concept of good and bad into us through evolution. Traits such as cooperation, reciprocity, and concern for others can improve survival and social cohesion, giving individuals who possess those traits an evolutionary advantage over those who are consistently uncooperative or harmful.

You do not necessarily need religion or philosophy to understand the basic distinction between what is good and what is harmful. Human beings already possess psychological mechanisms such as sympathy and empathy that allow us to recognize and understand the experiences of others through our own subjective experiences.

If you understand that something causes you pain, suffering, or fear, empathy allows you to recognize that the same experience is likely to be harmful to someone else. Likewise, if you understand that something brings you pleasure, security, or happiness, you can recognize that similar experiences may be beneficial to others.

That does not mean every individual instinct or emotional response is morally correct. It means that the foundations for morality can exist naturally within the human psyche, without requiring religion or a formal philosophical system to create them.

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[–] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I see someone struggling with something that might take a minute or two tops and help them.

Expanding on that I don't think I'm a good person. I think the minimum people should do is help others if it's no real skin off your nose.

Good people are the people who volunteer, the pekple who do good for the sake of it and spend meaningful amounts of time helping others.

Most people don't, religious or not.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

Laziness is a myth.

We saw it play out during the COVID-19 epidemic and lockdown. Furloughed folks were stuck inside and went mad for something to do. A lot of people started hobbies. Some of those were lucrative enough to fuel the Great Resignation. We even got a taste of class consciousness.

Depressed people can lay on a couch all day and binge-watch The Sopranos all day for weeks. I once lay in bed for nine months. It wasn't laziness. It was literal insanity.

Healthy able-bodied people who aren't working a 40-hour-plus-commute day job look for ways to help. (Of note, people who work that much are too exhausted to parent or be civically engaged.) But in the US we've been conditioned since the Calvinists to believe if we're not breaking our back then we're lazy.

If you're not doing the good work you want, consider your circumstances. I mean here in the States, most of us are overworked and going into debt just for food. In straits like this, it's a moral achievement just to show kindness to your neighbor.

[–] mafishfayda@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Interestingly, law is considered a more effective deterrent for immoral people than religion itself!

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[–] Varesti@lemmy.zip 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

"I don't need the threat of eternal punishment, we've got punishment at home." --Me, a bad person.

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[–] neon_nova@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I like what Ricky Gervais said about it. He asked Stephen Colbert if he believed in any of the other 3000 gods from human history. Stephen said he did not. Ricky told him that he just believes in one less than he does.

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