The leecher will keep trying to connect until it reaches its configured limit. So for a torrent with 10 seeders, you will certainly be connected to.
You can win over faster seeders by configuring your client to use TCP instead of UDP (µTP), and your operating system to an aggressive TCP congestion control algorithm like BBR.
If you do this you'll saturate your upload and win over every other peer using µTP or cubic/reno TCP, even if the peer is very far away.