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Hey there!

Last year, I fell into the Fediverse-rabbithole and I really like it so far. We already have alternatives for Twitter/X, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit and so on.

But today I realized, there actually isn't an alternative for tinder. But I think there could be a huge demand for it. This could also motivate people to change platforms, since no one wants to buy tinder premium for a lot of money.

But I think I'm maybe not the first one coming up with this idea. What do you think about this?

~ sp3ctre

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[–] Tehdastehdas@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Let's not clone trash. Tinder sucks because it has no matching mechanism to filter out incompatible people. To find one interesting profile on Tinder I have to swipe about 500 profiles. To get more matches, I risk some false positives and like ~2% of profiles. Then I need to filter the matches in person. Very inefficient, a waste of time.

The opposite of that was OkCupid before Match Group destroyed it.

[–] sp3ctre@feddit.org 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

This could be a symptom of being corporate-driven. They suggest you incompatible people, because they want you to pay (to get better results). I assume you only tried the free version. I never tried the paid one.

I think this problem could be solved.

[–] mbirth@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago

Even if you pay they have no incentive to get you to stop paying (i.e. find a partner).

[–] DieserTypMatthias@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

1000001311

It has already happened to me. Too bad I can't afford a plane ticket to Canada.

EDIT: I didn't meant that part about the plane ticket seriously. And I didn't leak any DMs between us, because I never replied to her.

[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Every app is a dating app if you use it wrong enough.

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 10 months ago

A few weeks ago there was a screenshot going around "I met my wife in a github issue thread".

[–] introvertcatto@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Every social media is dating App!

Why not instead make "meet" communities like reddit but on Lemmy or piefed or anywhere else, make community and let people meet that way, or you could use general conversation or whatever name is to engage in communication and that way find someone.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] introvertcatto@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] deus@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] haverholm@kbin.earth 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

like, on matrix or something 😄