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I'm half joking. But as a 30-something who used to be very active, I recognize I'm over the hill and my joints sound like pop rocks

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[–] digdilem@lemmy.ml 52 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

As a 54 year old who has just had two weeks of agony because he forgot his age and tried to deadlift a 225kg motorbike by himself, I'm going to skip this one because I clearly haven't learned anything.

[–] Thavron@lemmy.ca 26 points 3 weeks ago

Mustn't've groaned enough.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

A for effort though

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

I'm 62 and had to be advised to get a few fit young people to assist with moving a piano.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 40 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Nothing. It takes like five times longer for bruises and cuts to heal, but it's not bad enough for me to change my behavior to avoid them.

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[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 37 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

I've had to come to terms with taking things slower than I used to. I learned the hard way that I can't just train for a 10k in a few weekends.

The rule of increasing distance/duration by 10% per week is to protect our joints/bones/etc when they ain't what they used to be.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I was in a terrible youtube rabbithole of knee replacement surgeries the other day and I've been hating our fragile corporeal vessels lately

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[–] Carighan@piefed.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Same. I'm 43, and it mostly takes learning that you're no long 20-something. I can do everything, I just have to do it more slowly, more sparingly and give myself the time both physically and mentally to recuperate.

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[–] TheFermentalist@reddthat.com 30 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Walk 5km a day during the week, and 8-10km a day on weekends. Weights three to four times a week, and a cardio session afterwards. I like using the ski machine, as it gives me a serious workout without any impact.

Weights has had a huge impact on my quality of life, as I am recovering (recovered?) from a serious head injury. I was not active for nearly 18 months and am feeling good about my body for the first time in years.

58m here for context.

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[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

how badly do you guys treat your bodies that you are decrepit in your 30s??

[–] natecox@programming.dev 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Asking the real question. I’m in my 40’s now and doing fine. Sure I’m not literally invincible anymore like I was as a teenager but everything works as it should.

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[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

as someone over forty: Have a hearty FUCK YOU, and buckle up snowflake.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

As someone over 60: you ain't seen nothing yet.

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[–] Sludge@sh.itjust.works 19 points 3 weeks ago

I road bike, try to do yoga regularly, and incorporate strength training when I have time (never). Don't try to ramp up too fast with activity because not getting injured is the biggest priority. The more mindful activity you do, you'll become more resilient and less likely to get injured.

Trying to eat healthy (really just avoiding ultra processed foods and not drinking too much) also helps. I normally check to see where stuff falls on the NOVA scale. If it's higher than a 3, I try to avoid it all together.

[–] Balldowern@lemmy.zip 18 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Just walk for everything under a mile. Eat one type of new fruit a week.

The less you weigh, the easier life becomes.

Drop alcohol completely.

Buy high quality shoes, beds, tired & brakes.

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 weeks ago

Healthy Hobbies instead of Gym - stuff that's actually fun for me instead of just a chore

In my case, Sport Climbing and Yoga

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 weeks ago

Go for a walk (outside) every day. I used to try different posture exercises, running, sprinting interval training, but as you get older, nothing is healthier and easier on your body than just daily walks.

We kinda are walking machines anyway:

Bonus points for mental health if you walk in nature, without any headphones or entertainments.

Also do strength training (you can get hand barbells very cheap if you don't have a gym close by), starting very light at first, and working up to whatever feels comfortable.

[–] titanicx@lemmy.zip 17 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Over the hill at 30? Damn. I'm 49 and have no issues. Stay active walking, biking, hiking, I work an active job also. I live that I stayed in shape as a younger man and it's worked well as a middle aged man. I plan on staying active for decades.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

20 somethings think 30+ is forever away.

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[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It seems like some people here either never trained hard when they were younger or are deluded about their abilities. If you are in better shape in your 40s than your 20s, I applaud your progress but I don't know of a single life-long athlete in their high 40s that would say they could outrun, outjump, or outpower their mid 20 year old self unless they're on the juiciest of stacks. There is a reason we don't have many 40/50 year olds in the vast majority of pro sports.

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[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

Cycling is great. Not hard impact. Can really push yourself if you want to. Cardio and strength training. You get to be outside feeling the wind against your face. And you can cover a lot more distance than walking or running so you can make a trip out of it.

[–] lb_o@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I was ignoring bicycles for the most of my life, and only recently re-discovered them for myself.

Even a daily ride to the train station feels good

  • Evening random trips are priceless for body and soul.
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[–] 18107@aussie.zone 15 points 3 weeks ago

My 94yo friend is still going strong. His advice is to keep moving. Even just going for a short walk does more than you realise.

Look after your eyes, ears, and back, and always wear the recommended protective gear. People who say you look stupid using the correct technique or wearing protective gear will either die first, or regret their decision after it's too late to do anything about it.

Most of all, learn from other peoples mistakes. You don't have enough time or luck to make them all yourself.

[–] StellarExtract@lemmy.zip 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I raise my standing desk. Occasionally.

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[–] devolution@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

As a Lemming, I walk over cliffs.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 weeks ago

SWIMMING POOL

[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

ITT: One half providing helpful insight into healthy physical activities, the other half total assholes ripping into this person for not being a jock.

Some people have been living sedantary life styles, the reasons for such can range from lack of interest to mental illness. Some people get a good dopamine hit from exercise. For others, exercise is a pretty miserable experience.

If someone is reaching out to seek advice on how to improve their lives, lend a helping hand. Please don't be an asshole.

[–] hapablap@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 3 weeks ago

When I was that age my main exercise was commuting by running or biking. I got additional sporadic exercise doing miscellaneous sports. Having kids made it very hard to do more than that. I'm not working now and have the time and energy to do much broader and consistent exercise.

Turning your commute into your exercise regimen is great. Be warned though that the human body is great at optimizing and will quickly adapt to that specific routine. When you vary off that routine you'll find you're not in as great of shape as you thought. But you'll be miles ahead from where you'd be otherwise.

[–] mrductape@eviltoast.org 11 points 3 weeks ago

I know this guy, did judo for at least 20 years. Stopped doing that, but kept doing the bodyweight training every other day. Push ups etc.

He's now 70. I hope I can be as fit and strong as he is by that age. He still does his exercises every other day, and he still works in the garden etc.

So, what I do is even if I don't go to the gym anymore, I try to do bodyweight stuff every other day or so. Push ups, belly exercises, squats, pull ups on something. Yes, the gym is more intense, but if I can keep this up for the rest of my life the gains will be there.

I also try to be careful about what I eat, and I'm failing hard at that. I do walk a lot though, I have an active job and also a dog.

[–] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 weeks ago

Strength exercise keeps your joints working well long-term

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Rowing and swimming (in a pool, not because the boat capsized). Both are non weight bearing, easy on the joints. Rowing is excellent for your core.

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[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I turn on a bubble pop playlists and move wildly (sort of 80s aerobics videos style mixed with dance) until I have tired muscles all over. It’s mostly to ensure that weird muscles get worked that don’t with standard exercises, which tends to help with stability and overall strength. It’s also good for my mood. Bubble pop is happy dancy music, and free-form semi-dance movement feels good.

I also practice balance -a lot- such as standing on one foot while I cook or wash dishes. Helps prevent tripping and falling and hurting myself, and helps when I have to juggle stuff because I refuse to set it down. Also impresses the hell out of people when I use my thigh as a table while standing on one foot.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

First of all, stretching. The same stuff I learned back in gym class. The same stuff my soccer coaches made me do in elementary and middle school. Having a morning routine is good, but also taking a moment to stretch before physical activity helps. Whether that's working out, mowing the lawn, moving the Christmas decorations down from the attic, having sex, or whatever else.

Then there is exercise. I have had a basic structure for years that I landed on in high school, and I keep changing it as my needs change. I've also gone through years of my life where I have stopped exercising and faced the consequences.

The core structure is a super set of arm workouts with free weights. Curls, front raises, overhead extension, hammer curls, lateral raises, overhead press. The amount of weight, number of reps, and number of sets varies. If I haven't worked out in a while and just want to get my joints used to moving again, I might not use any weight and just do 20 reps of each for 2 or 3 sets. If I'm strength training that might be something like 5-10 reps at 25lbs each hand (honestly higher weight/lower reps would be better, but those are my biggest weights and I don't want to spend the money or dedicate more space in my house for bigger ones right now).

Of course, arms alone is a terrible workout. If I am in a hurry, I'll do what I consider a "focused" set. I start with pushups (using my 25lb weights as hand holds), then upright rows (with the 25lb weights I still have), then situps (using the 25lb weights as footholds, often grabbing extra weights to hold in my hands). Then I stand up and do the 6 exercises I mentioned earlier, and end with a handful of squats. Then repeat one or two more times. This is usually between 15-45 minutes depending on how long I take to rest, how many reps, and whether I'm doing 2-4 sets. My biggest complaint is that I get bored. I can put in music but that only does so much.

If I want a longer workout with more cardio, I have other options. Until a year ago I had a treadmill and a 10" Fire tablet I got real cheap and hacked to allow regular android apps. I installed Steam Link and used a MayFlash USB adapter to connect joy cons, and this let me play games from my gaming PC while on the treadmill. Not all games work- I found a lot of 3D games disprorienting, and fast-past games were hard because I wanted to time my inputs with my walking pace. But stuff like emulating Pokemon games, visual novels like Ace Attorney, and other turn-based games like Wargroove were great. Playing games and working out made me really enjoy working out, it was great to make progress on my backlog, and it was overall blorerty great. Did that for years and went through a couple of treadmills that broke.

Last year when the treadmill broke my wife and I discussed other options. I have a bad knee and so I wanted to try something lower-impact. The treadmill was also really loud- headphones were required. So instead we got an exercise bike. It's been even better than the treadmill was, but being more stable means I'm more comfortable with lifting weights while I use it than I was while walking on the treadmill. Which is great multitasking, but instead of playing videogames I just watch videos on the tablet. Still good, but I do miss the gaming time sometimes. But it's also really nice to get arms and cardio in at the same time.

Ultimately it's a balance in constantly tinkering with. The beauty is that once you have the core movements down it's very easy to customize. Strength, cardio, endurance, muscle mass, time, entertainment value, whatever it is I need. It's good to alternate throughout the week. At my peak I workout every day, but that's rare to sustain because life gets in the way.

Nutrition... I'm sure some vegans and vegetarians are going to hate on myself for this, but I've found the best results come from a nearly-carnivorous keto diet. Eggs for breakfast. Zero-carb protein powder smoothie for lunch (with a bit or orange juice, peanut butter and ice. Some banana if you can spare the carbs). Chicken or pork with leafy green veggies for dinner. Cheese and nuts for snacks. I don't do it all the time, but every time I've done it i usually lose about 30lbs in 2 months. I've tried other diets and general CICO and it just doesn't work the same- I can actively feel my metabolism change as I enter ketosis. And once I'm there, I can shove as much protein into my face as I want and still lose weight.

Which brings me to my final tip: marijuana. Other people my age swear by Tylenol or ibuprofen, but THC is my drug of choice, especially for my bad knee. I can still feel the discomfort in my knee and know that something is not quite right, it just stops bothering me. I feel less likely to accidentally do something that damages my knee further, plus it's better for the kidneys and liver and stomach than those other drugs. Plus it's fun to get high... On the exercise bike... And then snack on a bunch of cheese and nuts with no consequences. It really feels like what my body wants to do.

Final tip: Pedialyte makes freezer pops. It's basically Gatorade as a freeze pop form, and they're only 4 carbs each! Great frozen treat in the summer when you're doing something that involves sweating.

[–] greenbit@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 weeks ago

Sleep is the top priority. Warm-ups and active recovery has become mandatory

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Keep moving

[–] MutantTailThing@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

I still average about 10K steps per day, but if I take it easy and just sit around the house for a few days too long I instantly get punished with a gout attack. Apart from that 500% daily recommended dose of vitamin D seems to be enough to keep this decrepit old husk going

[–] helix@feddit.org 9 points 3 weeks ago

Swimming, going on long walks is a good start. Doesn't stress the joints that much.

[–] Punk_face@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I lift weights, however I do not avoid boo-boos. I’m a clutz

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 8 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Ditto, and I switched from high-weight/low-reps to lower-weight/higher reps. Like instead of sets of 3-5, doing sets of 10-20. I recover better and It's safer to do alone in the home gym.

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[–] Catpuccino@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Dance dance revolution and weight training

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I'm a big cinema fanboy, so up until last year I went to the cinema every week. It was 14km away from me, so I had to cycle on my bike a lot. That was really healthy!

But now I've moved into a new apartment right next to the cinema and I've grown quite large. I'm ~~still figuring it out~~ being a lazy bastard now.

[–] normalexit@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

I still lift weights, although now it is more about staying toned than getting huge gains. I also try to do cardio at least twice a week.

Injuries are harder to recover from so if something starts to hurt in a bad way I stop and do something else.

[–] argueswithidiots@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

I bent over this morning to scoop out some feed for the chickens and threw out my lower back.

So, not enough it seems.

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[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

45M

I'm probably in better shape now, than when I was in my late 20's and defiantly in my 30's.

I go rock climbing once a week. And general running around with my 3 boys... For the exercise part.

But about 90% out the improvement is, I have a way better diet. If you can't identify it by eye, severely limit how much of it you eat.

If you can't confidently state "hey, that is a bit of broccoli" or "that's beef mince" etc...don't eat much of it.

Fruit, vegetables, meat, spices, simple grains, rice..... Keep your ingredients simple, it will pay dividends in health long term.

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I delude myself into believing I'm young still and just deal with the consequences.

[–] CromulantCrow@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 weeks ago

I'm 57 and I started running this year. Overtraining is the biggest issue for me. I'm up to about three miles maybe four times per week, but most of those miles are zone 2 HR, really slow and easy runs. On the weekend I'll do a tempo run, or intervals, alternately. If I maintain that schedule for more than a month or so I end up a little more sore every time I go running and my time starts to drop. So I have to take most of the week off every four or six weeks. I also take a lot of supplements; creatine, L-carnitine, Beta-Alanine, protein, etc. They help. I feel I can exert myself more since I started taking them. I also take EFAs for joint health, collagen for connective tissue recovery, and sometimes MSM, though evidence on that one is spotty.

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