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It's okay. Everyone has little bit of gay inside them.

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[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 5 points 17 hours ago

Nope, and no straight either. I'm aro/ace

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I want a lot of gay inside me

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can I be some of that gay? 👉👈

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

The more the merrier!

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

hi bi, thankyouverymuch.

binary encoded AI, confirmed

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, yes, I’m married to another woman. It’s all on public record. Can even go to the courthouse to check.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Gay to the point of it being notarised - doesn't get more gay than that!

[–] regdog@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

More gay is always possible

[–] Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago

Thanks for noticing!

[–] Una 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are 72 gay men inside your fridge.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

oh those are just the Lurex duoseptuaplets ignore them

I'm not gay, i'm italian. It's easy to mix that up. :-)

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago

If you only have a little bit of gay inside you, you're bi 🩷💜💙

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Uhh yeah but I kinda knew that already tho?

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] nutbutter@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 1 day ago

If you accept this, you're gay.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago

Yay women 🥰