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sweet sunsets and soft lights (europe.pub)

submitted 5 months ago by nurunuru@leminal.space to c/artshare@lemmy.world

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I was just playing around with colours and shapes this weekend and ended up making this image :-)

puppyrule knight in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 9 points 5 months ago

guts' berserker armour is ouppy

The Universal Operating System in c/linuxmemes@lemmy.world

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 10 points 5 months ago

lets goo debian!!

Good everyday search engine? in c/fuck_ai@lemmy.world

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 1 points 5 months ago

personally I mix using ddg with kagi for the "what's the name of that website again?" or "where's that place?" kind of searches that I do regularly and find I stay below the 300 searches easily. depends on your usage case ofc

*Permanently Deleted* in c/adhd@lemmy.world

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

feel ya! I lost a bunch of shit the other week because my week got to too busy to do my "always put this item in this spot" routine

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supporting family through their quitting journey (leminal.space)

submitted 7 months ago by nurunuru@leminal.space to c/stopdrinking@lemmy.world

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hi to all of you! while this community isn't particularly alive, I was hoping I could write up something on here and maybe get some traction anyway. or at least vent!

my twin brother has had a backslide recently with alcohol abuse after spending time with my parents (who themselves are quite active in their own abuse), and I'm doing my best to be there for him. he's been struggling since we were kids at 15 - he's managed to go many months without drinking before, but he often falls back, especially as a social crutch. it's tough feeling like I'm the only support he has. he's been actively seeing therapists for a long time, but lacks a community of support. he's been trying really hard to reconnect with the LGBT community in our city but I think he's still stuck on the outskirts and hasn't made any strong connections.

with regards to his recent episode - he had just started developing a friendship with his neighbour, but then last night after an emotional trigger, he binge drank and harassed her and his other neighbours on his floor at 1:00 AM, demanding their company by banging on their doors. it's horrendous but I also can sense that he wanted some kind of social support. understandably, they were quite upset by his behaviour and are distancing themselves. it sucks seeing him wanting badly to make social connections, but his toxic way of doing so pushes them away.

so! what approach do any of you guys recommend family and loved ones take to help support their family through quitting alcohol? I've been trying to help him for a very very long time; I really want to help him change his mindset from "I'll just quit for a little bit" to "I need to quit forever". christmas and new years is a difficult time of year for drinking, which he'll be spending with me and my partner's family for the first time and I'm quite nervous about navigating that as well.

What's your power? Choose wisely. in c/memes@lemmy.world

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 3 points 7 months ago

australians rise up

Windows 10 End Of Life - Your Story in c/linux@lemmy.ml

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 2 points 8 months ago

proooobably should think about putting Bazzite on the gaming PC soon. but my partner is reluctant.

how's online gaming on linux going these days? the issues with anticheat are a bit of a pain.

Swings and roundabouts in c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

[–] nurunuru@leminal.space 1 points 8 months ago

wow this just happened to me too lol. I thought I lost my keys so I used the hidden outdoor key instead. and then I lost that key too. but lo and behold, my keys were in my jacket and the outdoor key was just buried in the dirt.