polderprutser

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[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 15 points 1 week ago

It doesn't say anything! Tattoos can't speak, you silly.

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 8 points 1 week ago

Superman's Kryptonite is that he can never, ever be fed after midnight!

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 4 points 1 week ago

I'm in love.

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 2 points 1 week ago

This method reminds me of a technique used in ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) to deal with pain or fear. Exaggerating a thought or giving it a silly voice or character, while staying neutral toward that part of yourself, can be a solid way to manage anxiety.

It’s called cognitive defusion. You notice when you're "fused" with a thought or pattern, and by using techniques like the one you mentioned, you create distance between the thought and your sense of self.

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 3 points 1 week ago

Love this! Thank you for the effort.

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 0 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Yeah I know but didn't want to assume. Some people have family roots for example. I do work with US colleagues and not all feel the need to move countries for example, which I find very interesting because it sure looks like a shit show to me. I'm not based in the US myself.

[–] polderprutser@feddit.nl 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Out of interest, since moving continents is no small matter in my opinion; what makes that, and making a third in terms of salary vs the US, a worthwhile trade-off?