tomiant

That's what I'm thinking too... It's a very complex topic, it is clear this is very much not the forum of it, I don't know why this would be an "ask" sub considering the hostility, I'll go elsewhere. Thanks for trying though, I appreciate it because you're the single one who actually engaged with the question instead of just assaulting me. Peace, <3

You are literally breaking the rules here, stop making me a victim, I am trying to get serious help with a problem and you keep accosting me, how is that normal? Just MOVE ON! What is the problem? Just GO AWAY!

Thanks for derailing my genuine and open question here. It is also very easy to MOVE ON. Goodbye!

Yeah I feel like that too. If I go and start questioning her and all of this, she'll just think I'm "the enemy". I need to make sure she won't shut down... But I'm at a loss, how do you break someone from something like this? She is a rational, intelligent, well educated woman, and this is shit she falls for? It just boggles my mind, I just need some help and talk to people about it because I don't know what to do...

Please go away.

She goes there regularly and has clearly been tasked with recruiting other people.

Snake oil people won't stop selling snake oil to loyal customers. They just find something else to sell.

Great! Time to retire this sub I guess!