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[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

It’s disrespectful to the people who set it up and to everyone else who is there to have a nice evening.

How

I mean if you don’t find dressing like that to a black tie event disrespectful that’s just a reflection on you

How

I'm begging you, explain how it's disrespectful. I don't think you can, because I think you agree with me that it isn't actually disrespectful.

[–] NewSocialWhoDis@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I wouldn't go so far as to say it's offensive, but I can agree it's disrespectful. Respect is shown by the lengths someone goes through to demonstrate someone/ something is important and held in high regard.

Examples:

When you are talking to someone you respect, you demonstrate it by making a point to convey that you are listening to them and thinking about what they are saying.

When a tragedy happens, we often show respect by holding a moment of silence where we interrupt whatever we are doing to hold a moment to think about the victims.

Similarly, a traditional way of demonstrating respect for people's contributions in a given field is through an awards ceremony where attendees both given their attention and dress in formal attire to mark the significance and importance of the event.

[–] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world -3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

It’s not my job to educate you or teach you manners or how to live in a society. How can I explain all that in a chat reply when you’re clearly ignorant and weren’t raised right. I can’t fix you dude

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago

If you understood how it's disrespectful, it wouldn't be hard to explain. Here's an example:

Sexual assault is disrespectful because it violates a person's bodily autonomy, which is a fundamental human right.

See? Easy. Now, try that for "people who dress wrong".

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social -3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

The community is selectively bred Redditors, fam. We're just lucky they ban the obvious racism here.

Just pop your head into the threads about how showers are a scam or whatever and keep it in mind whenever you're talking to them