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I knew. It's a research point of mine. I was a victim of such abuse myself and my own familial rapist is popular and beloved.
I also know he's nothing out of the ordinary. Most CSA is committed by family members and acquaintance, done for the sake of power and stimulation. My own parents also abused me.
Yeah I wanted to reassure that I'm not saying it's uncommon at all & they should be run over by so many cars + remains obliterated by MIRVs if it came off like doubling down, it's just coffee past 5pm and explaining yourself disease
I sympathize. But that's also uncomfortable nuance. I'm told that encouraging the death penalty discourages reports because people often don't want their family or acquaintances killed.
This is what I mean about people having to rely on the social capital of their abusers though. The condemnation usually changes nothing. Might enable couch surfing. There is no real community, just clusters of private societies. It makes me miserable to think about it.