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[–] GhostFace@lemmy.today -4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You act like every single man out there would gratefully accept any criticisms. Especially regarding this.

There's just so much that can go wrong.

[–] NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net 11 points 3 days ago

If the guy can't accept criticism without reacting negatively why would someone be intimate with them?

I get it if a guy would rather not get boo-ed during a bit of the horizontal tango, but surely their partner saying "do it like this" is an invitation to oblige

[–] Peruvian_Skies@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's not boolean, either fake it or tell him he sucks. You can do neither.

[–] GhostFace@lemmy.today -3 points 3 days ago (3 children)

You said you didn't understand. I gave you a reason and you insulted me.

Thanks for showing the world how insecure you are.

[–] GirthBrooksPLO@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

Yeah I'm looking for the insult and I'm not finding it boss

[–] FrostyTheDoo@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Where was the insult?? They disagreed with you. I wouldn't be calling other people insecure if you took that as an insult.

[–] Peruvian_Skies@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

How did I insult you?

Edit: maybe you read it as "you personally are incapable of doing either"? What I meant was "doing neither is an option". I apologize if it was ambiguous.

[–] GhostFace@lemmy.today 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Doing neither is an option is a lot different than saying "You can do neither."

I take it you're not a native speaker then. I already apologized and you understand what I meant now, yes?