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[โ€“] Etterra@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Soul mates are such nonsense. You're trying to tell me that out of what, 7 billion humans now, exactly one of them is my soulmate? Yeah no. Even if it was even a 1 in 1,000 chance the odds suck. You're gonna need to lower them expectations bub.

[โ€“] Landless2029@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

A lot of people don't realize relationships take work.

It's two people who click and both compromise.

When things get difficult you shouldn't stew in it. Don't cheat or rebel. Open your fucking mouth and talk to your partner!

Be open and honest with each other.
Be open to compromise (this means to meet each other halfway. Not cave in or only your way).

Only after talking things out should you both decide to make a major change like moving on (or even an open relationship).