The penalties for rule violations are in fact incentived. Let's see you spell everything correctively by sweeping
this post was submitted on 15 Aug 2026
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I'm such a fucking brat lol
They should make a bdsm for anarchists who want a little erotic violence without the power hierarchy
BDSM, by definition, doesn't have hierarchy. Because the whole thing is based on consent.
People usually also have special words to stop the acting
I should say, without hierarchy play, more like ... I dunno, ~~nude judo~~ ranked competitive sex
This reminds me some deep thinking i did on the topic of consent and morality.
And concluded that actually, bear with me with this heck of a statement
“Facism is not evil”
Of course facism as humans have made it and historically expressed it is very much super evil with no doubt. Absolutely no doubt, i identify as antifa for a reason.
But this is part of the larger philosophy that ”there is no objective good or evil in the universe”
So what makes things subjective good or evil.
Is it evil to organise a games of change fixed to have the house win majority of times? Not if the players are informed and consent to play (Consent also means the person is capable of controlling/understanding their actions, exploiting addiction is harm)
Is it evil to have sex with someone? Not if there is consent and clear boundaries.
Is it evil to humiliate and hurt someone? Not if there is consent and clear boundaries.
How big of a step is it to go from bdsm master slave play to a fascist powerplay.
I can even imagine a ethical functional economic organisation who runs on a fetishised version of Mussolini's facism. But it cannot exist in the world we live now.
If all the workers consent and want to work in these conditions, same with the partners. And they leave everyone else alone. There is effectively no harm and no evil. Such does require a world where there is total freedom of work meaning you are not incentivised in any way to work with organisations you are uncomfortable with.
Disclaimer, i am not into any of these things. But i accept that people can have weird kinks. Everything is ok as long as it causes no harm.
Im too much of a good girl to break the rules i could never be a brat 😞
Who gave you permission to talk?
Coffbratscoff
yes one positively shudders at the thought :3
what do you mean they slap their balls without monetary incentive ? ? ?