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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Finally bought and played helldivers. Honestly I think this type of game isn't really for me. Better then payday or warframe though. There's so many of the exact same thing in these games though.

Also playing with "the guys" has lost all joy for me. I'm only out to one. Honestly forgot how much I hate being in a VC with a bunch of guys. I feel so drained.

Also the one I'm out to, and actually like, asked me my new name a while back because my old nickname felt weird. Still calls me that. My trans-ness still comes up basically every time we talk though which is nice and it feels affirming. Just a weird thing ig. If you didn't actually want to call me a fem name why'd you ask...

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Does he only call you that in front of other people?

You could just ask. My wife never used my new name because (like most couples) we don't use each other's names because we use pet names. I had to specifically ask her to start using my new name.

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

been sitting here struck with the realization that boys are actually really cute and i am significantly less gay than i thought. i'm still bi but like wtf i can't stop thinking about men. i've been stuck on "damn wtf i'm into boys a lot more now" for the past like 4-5 months and still can't get over it

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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

saw a guy i used to watch streaming and i thought he had low viewer count so i checked the history^1^ and now hour and a half later i went down a whole ass- memory lane to the 2010s and all the loser streamers i watched.

~1~ ~nah~ ~he's~ ~solidly~ ~a~ ~10k~ ~andy~

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

Been getting some good sleep with this cheap eye mask I got, it's real cute with various butterflies on it. Honestly should have gotten and used one sooner, part of me wants to be vigilant but the other part of me is catgirl-flop

[โ€“] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

french karl marx isn't real, he can't hurt you

french karl marks

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Skincare is so underrated. HRT is magic of course, but a good skincare routine has made such a difference

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[โ€“] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

my appearance, dysphoria, drugs, hopeI recently realized I am very pretty :)

My hairline is trash, I'm like 40 lbs more than I want to be, my feet are huge, I've got bad skin, I often have visible stubble, I don't shave my body too often cuz it's a pain, I have crows feet, and lots more stuff like that.

All that stuff used to bother me a lot. But while on shrooms I decided I was pretty any way. And now I feel like I am pretty all the time.

And other people think I am too! People don't actually care about that shit. I literally have visible chest hair in my cleavage showing pics on my app profile. And shit is going great.

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

finished Andor s2, im sad cuz that was perfect and i can never experience it again for the first time, Kleya is serious goals and the drip is immaculate, fuck negative

[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It said it wasnt going to rain until I put my rain attracting outside window covers on. ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿคจ ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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DM and the other players in my group updated all their character icons / tokens, and suddenly it's Twinks All the Way Down.

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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Weekend with my partner has been so wonderful in so many ways. We still have half a day left before I need to drive them home and get to the lab to do some work this evening.

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Anyone know where I can find shoes like the above that will fit my gargantuan feet? I have women's size 13WW (or 14 if I can't get wide) feet. Looking for cute shoes for pride catgirl-heart

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The cats from the arm and hammer cat litter commercial are totallysappho right?

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[โ€“] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

Its 2am and i'm on a train, there's someone walking up and down the carriage shoutinf and it's really impacting my enjoyment of listening to Pink Floyd, but its onlt cause my headphones are kinda broken. I can smell potato cakes.

shout on my friend, be safe

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think my skin is getting softer or smoother or something? My knuckles are like weirdly shiny and they feel good to rub my face against. Huh

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When I was with my ex, I had just started HRT and it didnt take long for them to notice my skin was significantly softer. Like 6 months. It just keeps turning more and more into girl style skin the longer you're on it!

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[โ€“] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Wow my wonderful night last night is lingering into the day, I feel balanced and at peace in a way I haven't in a while.

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