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[–] chrischryse@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

Isn’t it cuz they aren’t “mentally fit”?

Which still isnt a good excuse to be a bigot, you can be non trans and less mentally fit than a trans person yet allowed in the military. I hate this country sometimes

[–] blinx615@lemmy.ml 2 points 18 hours ago

If you're "mentally fit" then the military will fix that.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It seems that their imagined enemy is both too strong and too weak... Jeez, where have I heard that before?

[–] Inucune@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

The quantum immigrant that is both stealing jobs from Americans while simultaneously nothing more than a drain on welfare?

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 5 points 22 hours ago

Excellent point

[–] Guns0rWeD13@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

if ex military trans want to kick off the revolution, they will have earned my respect.

[–] Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 10 points 21 hours ago (4 children)

Respect shouldn't have to be earned, it should be the default to respect everyone. It is reasonable for trust or admiration to be earned, but not respect.

[–] bufalo1973@lemm.ee 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

There are two distinct kinds of respect: for the human being (respect the human rights) and for the person (respect what that person does).

[–] Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

Agreed. But too often the two are conflated and individuals rights are lost not for what they do, but for what demographic group they are a member of.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you, I agree completly with you.

[–] Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

I respect that ;)

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Respect can be revoked though.

[–] Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

If you are talking about respect for actions (see above) then yes. Respect for the human being should be constant.

[–] CaptainCodeine@lemm.ee 1 points 18 hours ago

Just to be clear, would you also say this about hitler or similiar people? Just hypothetically, there could be no reason at all that you say you would revoke it?

[–] Guns0rWeD13@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Respect shouldn’t have to be earned

speak for yourself.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I shouldn't have to be earned.

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

TBF, Pete Hegseth also doesn't want cis-women in the military.

[–] Gronk@aussie.zone 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Imagine being at war for literally over 90% of your societies existence and you don't want half your population to have the ability to become combatants.

F tier warrior race

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[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 101 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Fascism always has enemies that are simultaneously so weak that they will be easily defeated by fascist superiority ... while also being terribly oppressive that it will take a great battle to overthrow the powerful enemies of fascism

[–] CaptainCodeine@lemm.ee 2 points 18 hours ago

Umberto Eco - Ur-Fascism

[–] apprehensively_human@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've heard something similar for conspiracy theories also.

NASA is at the same time an agency with enough advanced technology and resources that they were able to fool the entire world for a several-day-long broadcast of a fake moon landing, while also being too feeble and pathetic to have actually gone to the moon.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Then they snuck all the stuff they said they had on the moon to the moon before the other nations got there to look.

[–] fossphi@lemm.ee 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well put. Also works with the classic trope of lazy but simultaneously job stealing immigrants

[–] FLP22012005@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

If you want to keep the fiction up, you need to keep imagining additional things: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RequiredSecondaryPowers.

[–] CaptainCodeine@lemm.ee 2 points 18 hours ago

That list was way too short

[–] fossphi@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

There's no coming back once I click on that link

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"The enemy is massing their military near our border, which is a threat to us! We can defeat their military easily of course, they are disorganised and weak. But their movements are hostile and threatening to us! So we must preemptively attack them! Not because we need the element of surprise, but because we want to demonstrate our superior military tactics! This will be a quick 3-day special military operation. Because they are weak and we are strong but they are an existential threat to us."

[–] Shootingstarrz17@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Proving that it's all just about hate. We're strong though, we've been through so much, though not many of us made it. But we can keep going and we will win. Never forget. 💙🩷🤍🩷💙

[–] Prox@lemmy.world 63 points 1 day ago

Fascism requires a group of others to persecute. Ideally, that group would be very small (as a percentage of the overall population) and already somewhat marginalized/"different".
So here we are.

[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Bigots are too weak to participate in society. They should be banned.

[–] Soleos@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

That's a pretty bigoted stance though. Same mindset that's led to the US prison system re: criminals, which is exactly what banning people from society is in function. I'm more on the structural rehabilitative side when it comes to addressing harmful anti-social behaviour.

[–] B1naryB0t@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 day ago

Being bigoted is literally a skill issue. People with less money, status, or loved ones are more likely to hold bigoted views. Even in competitive online games higher ranks is less bigots

[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 23 points 1 day ago (19 children)

I agree with the sentiment being discussed here, but the argument being peddled isn't that they are too strong for sports, it's that they are too strong for womens sports, like women are so weak and their sports are a joke. The current right wing arseholes in the US are also claiming that women shouldn't be in the military. This nonsense is layers of bigotry deep.

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You aren't really refuting the conundrum presented by the woman. She is pointing out the same thing you are, but I feel like you're not getting the point.

Trans women are too strong to be in women's sports, implying they are stronger than cis women. Yet simultaneously being told they are too weak to be in the army, something that they aren't even saying of cis women, implying that trans women are weaker than cis women.

The woman in the interview is correctly pointing out the hypocrisy here to highlight that it's not logical, it's just bigotry.

[–] riot@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I feel like their hypocrisy and transphobia can be pointed out even simpler by:

"No!! You can't be in women's sports, because you are a man!!"
and
"No!! You can't be in the military, because you're not... a... man...?"

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It’s like how Imane Khalif is a man because she has a vagina and higher testosterone levels, but I am not a man because I have a vagina and higher testosterone levels.

When you argue with TERFs, it’s very easy to get them to contradict themselves like this. It’s not a consistent ideology - it’s “ewww yucky trans people.” Which is why we have an epidemic of alt right weirdos who are all of a sudden very committed radical feminists (despite having basically no knowledge of radical feminist theory - if you press them, they’ll claim Andrea fucking Dworkin wasn’t a radical feminist because she wasn’t a TERF!)

You can’t expect what they say to make sense. It’s the game of the alt right - they don’t believe anything they say, they just know that people have to respond to their words and not the meaning.

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[–] TripleIris@lemmy.wtf 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

All three of those dudes are trying to hide their boners.

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