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I'm not sure if what you describe is really an inability to get the big picture or the lack of available information to really base decisions on.

For me it's hard to make that kind of decisions because other people can't plan well and their estimates are notoriously wrong and forget to take into account a lot of things.

But what I'm really good at it seeing the bigger picture in the sense of knowing the interdependences between things. If I see a requirement I don't just follow it point by point. I think about what how it fits into the whole and where things can go wrong and ask if people have considered that. (90% of time the answer is no)

So I consider seeing the big picture and the details my strength, but like you I struggle to plan ahead long-term or estimate things because I don't feel confident with the amount of information available to make such guesses.

I feel like I have the opposite problem. I see the big picture as a default, it’s the details I’m blind to and that get me every time.

Long term planning is a task that requires executive function. Is it difficult for you and that's why you dislike it or is your distaste for it a separate issue?

Investing in long term is easy? 💀

Ok, that statement aside, I actually don't know if for me this is due to ADHD or autism. I'm still undiagnosed for both but I always thought this was my autism thing. For me, I'm the person that can't see the big picture. I like doing the work because it's the smaller pieces that usually have a clear objective. I don't understand things like "aligning with the mission" or the wacko lingo 'cause I can't see it. It's kind of like mental math for me. I can't do it. I struggle imagining the numbers in my head—like how I can't collage together everything needed for a successful project. Sometimes out of nowhere I'll get a eureka moment but I for the life of me can never be a project manager.

Pretty sure it is a people are different trait, although it is pretty easy to get distracted by the small details.

I used to do the small detailed work which was great, and had managers that asked for estimates and ignored them and others than listened and used them, but of course estimates are estimates. Now I do project management and do my best to use the longest possible estimate, sometimes offering to add extra, because it is necessary to know when things are most likely to be done so something else that is dependent on it being done is ready. Barely anything actually meets exact deadlines of course, but planning ahead helps with keeping things from being so overwhelmed that they can't be done.

But I can't do both the details and the big picture at the same time. One or the other on a particular day for personal stuff and one or the other for longer periods of time at work.

Same thing with “5 year plans”. I literally cannot do it because 1. All my plans involve “have money to do thing” and 2. You could easily get cancer and die in 5 years (or other big changes).

For me, any kind of long term planning is likely to be interrupted by the unexpected but if I don't have something to work towards then I will just be stuck in a daily loop of 'doing something tomorrow' and then never doing anything because everything will get done 'tomorrow'. I have just accepted that ADHD is going to reduce my productivity for necessary things and hobbies by few hours out of every day compared to the average person and work around that.