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[–] Frigidlollipop@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Why does the husband have a hand with 5 fingers for only the first panel and then everyone else has mits for hands? Lol.

[–] deltaspawn0040@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Sometimes people get tired

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 52 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

I have two daughters, never cared about what gender they would be, they are who they are.

But when they were born and some people acted like it was a bad thing that they were girls,I told them it is 2020, they could still come out as boys. That usually shut them up.

[–] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 minutes ago

some people acted like it was a bad thing that they were girls

& guessing they weren’t rural farmers or born in 1800 or anything

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 hours ago

Nobody actually cares except for a few vocal fetishists for and against.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 14 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

what kind of family sickos care about the gender of a baby

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago

Chinese Culture has entered the chat...

During the One Child Policy, a lot of female fetuses were said to have been aborted once the parents found out about their gender. Some were abandoned after their birth.

I'm in a family that has two sons (I'm the second one), because my mother decided to violate the one child policy, and I remember growing up, my mother would often warn me about kidnappings and according to her, the "bad guys" (bad guys? what a nebulous term lol) would "harvest the organs of little boys and [SA] little girls and sex traffic them"...

Like wtf, I have no idea how true that is, since the authorities don't exactly like publishing real numbers of crime statistics. But like I think this idea of kidnappings just gets spread throuout communities. Like some kid gets kidnapped, then gossips spereads and suddenly everyone is affraid of their kid getting kidnapped. I think thess kidnappings is fueled by the one child policy. I actually ran away from home once when I was in Guangzhou... well I did not get kidnapped lol... (seriously tho, I was like 5-7 or something and I had a fight with my older brother at home, so kid-me made the stupid decision to run away)

My mom actually joked about "selling me" to another family when I "didn't behave"... wtf mom... are you even my real mom? 🤔

But just to give an idea... they have this genenology book thing, it's only male names written into it. My mom told me what my paternal grandfather got so excited when he found out that my dad had 2 sons... although I didn't even like my paternal grandfather, he seems to like my older brother more... I guess it makes sense, if this was a royal family (we're not, but I'm just using it as an example), my brother would be the oldest son of my paternal grandparents oldest son, so succession goes to him... also I think it's because he speaks Taishanese better, more connected to the older generation, I only speak Cantonese, cuz my parents never spoke it to me lol... whatever, I like Cantonese better anyways, there's not even a Taishanese movie or tv show or video game (shoutouts to Sleeping Dogs the game lol)

I have no idea what are the odds of having two male children... like... did my mom have abortions of female fetuses before? No idea, feels so wrong to ask about it... but anyways... I'm here... my existence is weird... I'm an anomoly, and nobody cares.

So... yea... 重男輕女 in a nutshell

[–] turkalino@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 hours ago

A lot of Asian cultures still prefer male children

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 21 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

way more common than I expected. or maybe they were assuming I (a man) wanted a boy.

either way it was stupid

[–] Frigidlollipop@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (2 children)

I had a very Christian coworker who already had a daughter and who was part of the maga pipeline. He didn't hide his disappointment when he told me the gender of he and his wife's next child had been revealed as another girl. Sent a shudder up my spine how he paused and said it in a sad tone, the way you would if you were a teenager expecting a Mustang for your birthday and instead having your parents roll up in a Saturn for you. What kind of world do we live in where folks are disappointed that their next kid will be female? It's dumb society has been crafted this way, stupid af.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 2 points 26 minutes ago

What kind of world do we live in where folks are disappointed that their next kid will be female? It’s dumb society has been crafted this way, stupid af.

I'm probably giving more credit than is due, but:

I don't think it's inherently bad for a parent to have a preference for their kid's sex. If a mother already has a son, I can understand her wanting her next child to be a daughter. Similarly, if a father already has a daughter, I can understand him wanting a son next. All parent/child relationships are special, but I understand parents who are particularly interested in cultivating a mother/daughter or father/son relationship.

Obviously no parent should ever be disappointed in their child for simply being one sex or the other; that's not okay. But I can understand a parent being disappointed that things didn't turn out how they had hoped in that regard.

Disclaimer: My father was very transparent that I was a last-ditch-effort for him to finally have a son after having 3 daughters. Thanks dad.

that's so sad.

I can't imagine growing up with your own parents being disappointed in your for just being born.

[–] ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

My experience was that everyone was interested in knowing the gender, but no one ever had any responses other than happy ones relating to the answer. We ended up with one boy and one girl so there was an opportunity for people to comment positively and negatively for the binary genders. We had a lot of people comment on it being nice that we ended up with 1 boy and 1 girl, but I took that as getting to experience raising both binary genders. Also, everyone was excited to buy baby clothes targeting little girls and little boys. While my daughter has a "girly" side to her, she also wears hand-me-downs from my son whose clothes are not "girly."

I will say, I have worked hard to keep people in my life who are good people and get away from the rest (e.g., I haven't talked with my biological mother in 20 years because she drains energy and money from everyone around her). So, that may be why my experience was different. Although, I also experienced this with strangers (e.g., people in the grocery store were happy to chat with my wife about her pregnancy regardless of whether my wife was. At least they were all nice.).

[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 55 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Needs to give him 200. 100 to return, 100 for the bet

[–] synapse1278@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

100 € ($?) has devalue a lot in 10 years, he is still on the loosing end of this bet.

[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 hours ago

And yet she still needs to give him 200, even ignoring inflation!

[–] Tagger@lemmy.world 96 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

There should totally be an inflationary rise in the amount returned.

[–] MalReynolds@slrpnk.net 41 points 11 hours ago

And that rise needs to be based on $200 (the 100 he gave her given back and the hundred she lost).

[–] unepelle@mander.xyz 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It should also be 200! Refund + bet money

[–] morto@piefed.social 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

But not even if she had all the existing money in the world, she could pay those 200!

[–] mrlemmyhimself@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

Be careful with !s around your numbers, kids. You might accidentally factorial!

[–] Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com 14 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (3 children)

Firstly if they are married it doesn't matter, secondly the bet was likely friendly. Thirdly the rush from being tight after all those years is worth it

[–] Sludge@sh.itjust.works 14 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Inflation still occurs if you're married.

[–] gnutrino@programming.dev 14 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] 4am@lemmy.zip 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Gestures broadly at everything

[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 5 points 7 hours ago

Dont know why you gotta gesture like a broad but okay.

This dumb fucking joke is brought to you by the stupid side of my brain.

[–] Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

But they probably have a shared account

[–] Sludge@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago

Idk man, I'm married and we don't have a shared bank account. Shared cards, sure. I guess it's hard to make broad, sweeping generalizations - other than that inflation happens regardless.

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

They also probably have a personal account that they can use as a discretionary fund for whatever they individually want to do.

[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Our usual has been 100 Argentinian pesos. The token actually exists, even though I'm doing way better than my wife.

The value has plummeted since we started.

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] moistclump@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 6 points 11 hours ago

You fixed the first one not the second btw