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First of all, I don't mean this post as a complaint, maybe more of a warning?

There is teenagers on the fediverse. Most of them don't share their age, for hopefully obvious reasons. I'd say that a lot of the accounts which do a lot of posting/commenting are run by teenagers


because most adults probably wouldn't have the time for that much posting.

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word, the people who are good at technology, usually are very good at it.

most of my friends (most of which don't know the difference between a laptop and a desktop) could understand the fediverse as a concept perfectly when I explained it to them irl.

So, if you're in a really stupid argument with someone, try to remember that there is a small chance they are 14.

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[–] kbal@fedia.io 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

WARNING To the People of Earth: Teenagers exist. BEWARE

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe -1 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Pretty much yeah, most people assume that no one under 30 is on fedi because its "hard" to use.

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 1 points 1 month ago

I'm 19 and assumed that there are at least a few. And with that I'm correct.

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 month ago

What part of the fediverse is "hard" to use?

Lemmy is easier to use than the UBB forum I started to become active on at the age of 10 that was the entry point for me being on the Internet at all. Back then we didn't have Markdown, but BBCode, and I had that figured out after a few weeks.

I think you're way underestimating young people.

[–] ByteMe@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I'm 24 and I'm using it just fine. I'd say that after signing up somewhere and getting an app to login into, the rest is pretty simple and much similar to reddit

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

With lemmy? definitely! On the mastodon side of things? no. Mastodon seems to be for german middle aged bikers now.

[–] dpflug@kbin.earth 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How is Mastodon harder? (Legit question, not snark)

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There is more missing replies/reactions, and picking an instance is a bit harder imo. Also search is completely broken.

[–] dpflug@kbin.earth 1 points 1 month ago

Gotcha. Less difficulty and more just not matching up with expectations.

[–] Angelusz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You people still get into arguments online? Discussions, sure.. but arguments? o.O

[–] SatyrSack@feddit.org 1 points 1 month ago

YOU GET INTO INTERNET ARGUMENTS ALL THE TIME, YOU FUNGDARK! YOU'RE IN ONE NOW!

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Listen teens, I'm 40. I was a niteclub bouncer in a town popular with backpackers and partying, I also did a lot of traveling and partying. I was shameless, its a miracle it didnt fall off.

When you say you fucked my mom, its childish and stupid. When I say I fucked your mom while its not likely its possible... and thats worse.

[–] kane@femboys.biz 1 points 1 month ago

Maybe, but I was on the internet as a teen and that went fine, being careful is a general thing in life.

But more importantly: adults have a phone and use it during work ALL the time. So I’m not so sure about the average age of the people commenting on here.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word, the people who are good at technology, usually are very good at it.

"Young people bad!" This paragraph has nothing to do with the rest of the post.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 0 points 1 month ago

As a young person, this generation sucks at technology.

[–] RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Honestly as an older person it very much feels like a lot of Lemmy is under 25. It's the little things like not understanding the historical context that something from the past fits in while simultaneously telling me Im wrong about the time that I lived through.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You are either a 14 year old socialist furry or a 35 year old Linux user on the fedi. No in between

[–] vaionko@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What if I'm a 21 year old socialist Linux user?

[–] alienghic@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

Welcome to the software commune comrade!

[–] shikitohno@lemm.ee 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It’s the little things like not understanding the historical context that something from the past fits in while simultaneously telling me Im wrong about the time that I lived through.

In fairness, that's not necessarily a sign of them being young, but could be any number of things at play. I've had my grandmother literally tell me not to tell hew how things were during World War II, because she lived through it, when we were talking about well documented actions of major historical figures that she was confidently incorrect about. No amount of documentation about what Churchill, Stalin or Hitler did during a particular event could change her mind, because she lived through it, never mind the fact that she was like 10 at the time. /r/AskHistorians had a 20 year moratorium on discussing recent events for a reason. Then again, this is the same lady who left her church of decades, because she was sure she was better at interpreting the Bible and church doctrine than all the priests who spent years studying those topics in seminary, since she occasionally read random books of the Bible and was older than they were.

It could also just be peoples' biases at play. A Marxist historian and a fundamentalist, conservative Christian historian will come to wildly different conclusions and interpretations of things like the significance and impact of the rise of the religious right in the US under figures like Ronald Reagan, despite looking at the very same events.

And it could always just be that people are essentially engaging in drive-by posting quite often on the internet. For all the good things it can bring us, and the sense of community that it often provides, I think that internet "communities" really just provide us with a close approximation of community, while fundamentally lacking key elements that help real communities to exist and function in the long term. Personally, I'm closer to the Democratic moderates/centrists that abound on Lemmy.world than I am to my coworkers or my parents politically, yet I find that political discussions here tend to lose all civility and sincerity much quicker than they do with my boss who is all gung-ho for MAGA in real life. Like, I actually got my boss to come around on things like taxing the rich and universal healthcare when I had a chance to explain them without the hysterical stuff Fox tosses out and with examples of how they would actually benefit him to have as a baseline during election season last year, and it was a more civil and less heated conversation than some of those I had here a few months prior about whether Harris was really a good pick when the Democrats announced her as their candidate last year.

[–] weremacaque@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Most of us would post on forums as teens back in the day, so it’s hypocritical to try to keep them from doing it too. The only places we should run them off would be communities we specifically make for adults. They don’t necessarily have to be NSFW. Sometimes it’s just nice to have a community where everyone is old enough that they get the same references and are in similar stages in life.

General music and hobby related communities really shouldn’t be blocked off, though.

[–] small44@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Why do you think teens are generally stupid?

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

As a teenager, I get in stupid arguments making stupid points because in my head, being right is important.

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

14 going on 40 so it will be some spirited ebeef. No quarter will be given

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Teenagers now get banned if they tell their age anyway: !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

[–] socsa@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago

Meh. At least pretending to be an adult feels like a pretty low bar.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

To any teens who come across this post, do NOT admit you're underage or were underage at time of account creation anywhere, anytime for any reason

It's like Rule 1 of the internet.

Sincerely, The kids who grew alongside the internet since the 90s

[–] Max_P@lemmy.max-p.me 1 points 1 month ago

I was totally above 13 or had parental consent when I went to forums in the early 2000s. I totally wasn't actually 9.

It's wild to me this concept disappeared? It's literally never been a good idea to reveal you're a minor online. The laws are against you. Companies don't want to deal with a curated minor experience, even less so in the current times. If they do, you get the crappier version of things.

The worst thing to happen to the Internet is when Facebook normalized using your real name and real info online.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 0 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

14/f/under your floorboards

[–] Kaboom@reddthat.com -2 points 1 month ago
[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

As a teenager who is relatively tech-savvy and on the fediverse, can confirm. I think it's gotten to the point where even less technically inclined people can join fairly easily, but the more savvy are usually the first to flee from enshittifying platforms so we see a lot more of them here.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago

Teenager ≠ underage, 18 and 19 year olds exist. But thanks for your concern. :)

[–] WatDabney@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've long assumed that many (most?) of the tankies, and of hexbear's userbase in general, are teens.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

You would probably be right. Teenagers change political ideologies every other month.

[–] Condiment2085@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

This is actually a good thing - teenagers are known to bring niche things into popular culture! For some reason the whole of society kind of cares what they think is cool

[–] Randelung@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There's neither women nor non-adults on the internet.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

In fact, there's no one on the internet. Its all bots except for you.

[–] satans_methpipe@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word

Generalizations and eager bootlicking of generational propaganda isn't helpful at all.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I am literally speaking from experience, as a young person.

[–] satans_methpipe@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago

I am literally telling you generalizations aren't helpful. I don't care about your age.

[–] ray1992xd@feddit.nl 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Isn't it wise to do some sort of age check before someone can access the adult subs? If this becomes a trend among teenagers, I can already see parents halting that just because of easy adult access. Pixelfed for instance has parental controls.

[–] blackbirdbiryani@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lmao, when have age checks worked on any site ever

[–] ray1992xd@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago

Well in all honesty: never

[–] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ah yes, of course other generations are much better with technology than today's teens.

[–] throwaway@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

They are, teenagers (saying this as a teenager) are hopeless. Tech became so easy to use that anything requiring a tiny bit of effort is impossible for these people.