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Considering the fact the doing good will not earn you anything in anyway and that if you are not a millionaire or billionaire your good acts won't matter at all.

What's the point?

I had seen with my own eyes good people being manipulated and fucked because they did something good, on the other hand it's pretty rare for evil people to face any consequences.

Why should I restrict my free hands with ethics and why should I think about it?

Just a note: I am a deist, so I don't believe that doing good will get you anything in the after life.

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[–] Impronoucabl@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The point is that you'd also like to have good things done to you.

It really depends on how much you have to do, to be considered as doing 'good'. Do you consider returning a shopping trolley as a good act? It's a simple, small act that you do have to go out of your way to accomplish, and it brings some utility to others, which you might unknowingly be a recipient of.

That's not to say you're expected to return every trolley in the carpark, or that all the evil corporations are actively trying to exploit this for free labour.

Society requires that people do good to exist, while continued Evils tend to slowly destroy their community.

[–] Mee@reddthat.com -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

As I said before, I did not get anything from doing good and I only lost by doing it.

Evil society exists, if the good has to be done, then why should I be the one to do it?

[–] wirelesswire@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because helping others around you and "doing good" helps build community, which you are a part of.

If you want to look at it from a selfish perspective, doing good and helping others builds goodwill towards yourself, and sooner or later, you may need to rely on others doing good for you. It's much easier to get help if others think highly of you.

As far as being manipulated, you probably shouldn't just blindly help people who request it. Keep your eyes open and your guard up when dealing with people you don't know or trust.

[–] Mee@reddthat.com -1 points 1 month ago

I spent my current age doing good and that earned me zero returns and some losses and I know a lot of people who had a similar experience to me.

No one even feels greatful for the good I do.

Respectfully your argument does not hold up for me.

[–] AnthropomorphicCat@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Dude, looks like you are just looking for an excuse to be an asshole. Don't ask for permission, just go and make other people suffer, if that's what you want. Let's see how far you get with that mindset. Maybe one day you'll be the president of a country. Shrugs

[–] Mee@reddthat.com -1 points 1 month ago

Actually no, I spent my time on earth thinking and practicing the best ethics I could, even in sometimes if it meant I will lose.

Currently, I don't see any reason to continue to do so.

[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because you shouldn't want to make the world harder for anyone else, and should be able to put yourself in someone else's shoes and see how they'd feel from your poor treatment of them.

[–] Mee@reddthat.com -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What guarantee that if they were in my own shoes they wouldn't fuck me up?

Why not focus on my benefit regardless of its effect on the world?

Why care about a society that does not care about me?

I feel that The Platform movie answer exactly this question, everyone care only about himself.

[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You can't control what others do to you, but that's no reason to make the same people in your class miserable. That's my point. Perpetuating the poor behavior will only make the world a harsher place, and that could eventually come right back to you.

[–] Mee@reddthat.com -1 points 1 month ago

I guess you did not watch The platform and that is why you commented with what you commented, so let me put it simply.

The people who are above me will always be as harsh as they can, the people in my same class will get the tit for tat treatment in order for us to be able to get the max benefit from each other and the class who are lower than me would not get any space in my mind, just like I won't get any space in their minds.