This is a shitty leader.
Praise in public. Correct in private.
Not that I even agree correction was warranted.
This is a shitty leader.
Praise in public. Correct in private.
Not that I even agree correction was warranted.
Yes, 100%. That's more than a red flag. A red flag is a warning sign of a problem. That's just a problem.
red flag imo. especially when it comes to fork trucks and safety implications it shouldn't be a big deal to call a mechanic to check and ensure they are in proper working order.
Shitty boss. Another boss might have been like "yeah you made a mistake and spent time looking for a mechanic, but thanks for showing inititative and trying to problem solve"
Your boss was on holiday that implies that the boss was out of the office for at least a day.
I am confused by your situation. You couldn’t start two of the forklifts, so you went to get help with that. It seems you couldn’t so what else did you do for the rest of the day?
As far as your boss asking you “to explain yourself” in front of others. Whether or not that is appropriate is situational.
I often have techs explain to a team of people how they resolved an outage or how they are going to set things up. That way I can get everyone up to speed on the effort or maybe other team members will identify things the lead had not thought of.
If someone was late for work, that would be a conversation I would have in private.
I manage a team and came to say this same thing. If the topic is a lesson the whole team can benefit from, I bring the whole team in. The more obstacles that can be resolved without my involvement the better. Sometimes that means bringing the whole team in on a mistake, too. I do my best to ensure it's framed as simply as that though. A mistake to learn from. As well as ensuring the employee is in a good headspace to share that moment. It's not a punishment. Mistakes happen.
This may not be the case in your situation, but something to consider.
I think the problem op had with this situation and boss' approach was that it definitely had shades of admonishment, or at least potentially so, hence wanting to know op's the thought process. I don't manage people professionally and never have so I'm not speaking from knowledge of best practice, but I do know that in general this isn't going to be conducive to good outcomes. Necessary or otherwise, if admonishment or at least finding of fault with the behaviour of the person is on the cards doing so publicly is embarrassing and unlikely to foster the goodwill required for that person to think or behave differently since it moves the whole situation out of the framing of learning a lesson about how to do your job in future and in to something adversarial, with the boss now a malign influence to be resented or feared or both and the humiliation in front of peers now also means that person is more likely to feel isolated from them too with their peers are now to be viewed with apprehension as well as the boss. It's hard to work well and to avoid making mistakes with such factors at play. One such occasion alone, probably not, but if it's something boss wants to do a lot as a general management strategy, it's hard to see that going well for anyone involved.
There are a lot of holes in the OP’s story.
First and foremost the OP didn’t state what it was he was asked to explain.
Secondly what did the OP do between the time he tried to find a mechanic and when he had the meeting with his boss.
I have managed people professional for decades. Trust me there a many situations where you have to chew someone’s ass in front of others.
I would have addressed you boss in front of those people, why he thought it's okay to leave while not keeping people up to date on handling heavy machinery.
That might feel great for about four seconds. I imagine a boss that would get a kick out of scolding you in front of everyone would jump at the chance to fire you in front of everyone.
The goal is to have a good working environment to live good lives and do good work.
The fact that your boss pulled in other coworkers could be interpreted as a red flag, as something fundamentally wrong with your boss. However, without more information, I think this situation could be workable. In other words, there are things you can do.
Again, the goal is to have a good working environment to live good lives and do good work.
I think a good working environment is one where errors can be talked about openly and without fear. I do not think the solution is “praise publicly criticize privately”. I think the solution is for your team (including your boss) to create psychologically safe environment. How? By emphasizing the goal, the purpose of your work. By admitting to mistakes or lack of knowledge to accept fallibility. This is especially helpful if your boss does it. By appreciating when someone openly shares concerns or mistakes. By creating rituals or habits of inclusion, such as well run meetings or effective information-gathering methods.
Do all of those recommendations sound hard to implement and naive? I think for many teams they are. But the reality is that psychologically safe teams exist, and they perform better than teams that don’t have it.
If it’s hard to implement it, why am I bringing it up? Because I think it’s important know exactly what went wrong with your meeting with your boss. It’s better to have an accurate map that shows a steep canyon than a fake map that shows a nonexistent bridge.
So what do you do?
Here are a couple of suggestions:
If you vibe with what I’m saying, let me know and I can give you more suggestions. At the same time, it’s totally understandable if you don’t think my path is viable.
Big time red flag, bad boss, needs manager training, or basic human decency training.
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