FairycorePhoebe

joined 2 years ago
[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Bangs almost always look great. They just need to match the rest of the hairstyle and be the right shape for your face.

There is nothing degrading about a woman being nude or semi-nude. If anything the fact that women are still forced to cover their chests when men aren't is degrading.

I loath the modern obsession with minimalist, utilitarian design. Everything is just a white, black, or grey slab with no artistic thought put into its form. Buildings, homes, cars, clothes, electronic devices. It's almost like a capitalist version of brutalism. Even the design of user interfaces is usually a pile of flat, washed out rectangles now. It's like the soul has been sucked out of everything we make, reduced to it's most basic form. It can feel anti-human at times. Like the world has collectively decided that beauty is a waste of time.

Mine is also only in low light conditions. I have visual snow, phosphenes, and a fuzzy blind spot when I'm in the dark.

[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I did a weird psychedelic research chemical and gave myself HPPD. Still have symptoms over 6 months later with no drug use. I'll probably suffer from visual disturbances for the rest of my life.

[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Replace prisons with compassionate psychiatric hospitals with the purpose of rehabilitating violent criminals who are a danger to the public. People who are not rehabilitatable would still be locked up for the rest of their lives, but they would be treated as humanely as possible. In this case though locking them up wouldn't be punishment, but rather harm reduction.

[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 45 points 2 months ago (6 children)

There is no utility in punishment. Wanting people who wronged you to suffer isn't a desire for justice, but a desire for revenge. Dangerous people can be stopped from hurting others without locking them in cages or treating them poorly.

The State of the Art and Excession are the two I haven't gotten my hands on yet. I'm reading Matter right now and am consistently blown away by how forward thinking the author is. All of his work holds up so well.

[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 months ago (3 children)

My favorite fictional universe is The Culture. I think I'm going to be alright lol.

[–] FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

For reference I'm a 23 year old trans woman that has been on hrt for 3 years. I usually don't experience this feeling watching transfem content, but cis women still regularly make me deep envy. If anything trans women are the only women I'm not jealous of lol. The idea that my body wasn't just like that naturally and I have to extensively modify it to even reach a rough approximation can be really upsetting at times. I will admit that a lot of my envy is caused by not their bodies themselves, but the fact that they get to be that way with zero effort or pusback from society. They don't have to take meds to look that way, and nobody is trying to stop them from being women.

I live in the US and the threats to take away trans healthcare or make it prohibitively expensive have only exacerbated my envy of cis women. There's a lot of existential dread surrounding the fact that my femaleness is maintained only by a "benevolent" insurance system where most choose to cover hrt and bottom surgery. They could decide to stop at any point and then I get medically detransitioned. Being cis feels extra privileged at the moment. But yeah, seeing cis women go about their day being happy and beautiful and successful has made me stop consuming certain media and has actually brought me to tears, so I understand the feeling. Seeing cis lesbians in the media is probably the worst for me because I feel some insecurity about being perceived as a "real" lesbian or belonging to that culture.