PosiePoser

joined 4 months ago
[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago

I'd do what we're already doing: https://feddit.org/post/26849555/11924777 though this card idea might work too for the sake of data privacy. Not so much for face-to-face privacy, same problem when we got porn on magazines. Let's remember that buying adults goods with the intent to distribute to kids is punishable too. If some 18 year old goes to the store and buys 30 "I'm an adult" cards, there's a good chance the clerk's gonna put a stop to that. After that it becomes effort vs. benefit. Does one really want to go to several different stores to buy multiple cards to sell them for a slight markup? With the threat of getting caught and being charged? There's always the slight embarrassment factor too. Of course adult access could mean a lot of others things than porn too but let's face it: that's what people are going to think, and that's what people are going to think people are going to think.

Again, the magic word is reduction.

There will always be sites that won't comply with any solution, there are p2p sharing methods, TOR and all that. There are always going to be nerdy kids who find their way to forbidden content. But that then becomes easier for parents to keep an eye on. Maybe get the kid off the device more so they simply won't have the opportunity to figure it out. Make sure they only access sites that are in compliance etc. Still not a 100% fool proof solution but again, the point is reduction.

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

So... the same flaw we abused to have our older friends buy us booze and cigarettes when we were underage lol I'll still take it. You're not going to get a perfect solution that works all the time. Point is HARM REDUCTION.

REDUCTION.

Not a perfect, flawless, impossible to abuse system. Just a system that helps to make it a bit more difficult and then hope that parents take care of the rest. Some will always still slip through, thems the breaks.

Yeesh I thought I was a nerd but reading some of the replies in this thread it's like some people never even thought how to get access to alcohol and smokes when they were underage. Never even mind porn. We had older friends buy us those magazines too.

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah this. I don't know why people are trying to make this into some incredibly complicated multi step process.

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

And what if they had been surrounded by people who actually care about human well-being? have you seen Muskrat's mom lol

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Cool guide but I have some questions and issues, if you don't mind:

You tell people to look up teachers online but that smacks a bit like creeping and the contrapoints video points this out as well.

You mention that spiritual practice can bring up a lot of bullshit and that spirituality is in lockstep with therapy. What if i can't afford therapy?

How does a community call you out on bullshit but doesn't "make" you deal with it? Also how do I know I won't just be gaslit to buy into whatever belief the group holds? What if healthy skepticism gets called a "problem" I need to stop doing?

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago

35 ist doch noch jung, oder?

.... o... oder...?

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 1 points 2 weeks ago

lol you are being so willfully obtuse

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Pretty sure he didn't read your post beyond the first paragraph to begin with...

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

No, I'm surprised to see someone post the meme thinking they are the clever one in the exchange lol

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Cringe. I never thought I'd see anyone seriously post that meme anymore.

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

"I want all the cool things that a civilized society has come up with but none of the systems that enabled us to get those things!"

-The OP, probably

He should sign up for https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Naked_and_Afraid and see how that feels. Though nothing but above is stopping him from just doing that in the nearest forest. If he goes in deep enough, unlikely anyone is going to bother him in most countries.

[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 8 points 3 weeks ago

Problem with lemmy.world is that because it's got so open registration, some instances block it entirely. Though it's a good place to start and know what to expect. Because Lemmy is pretty slow, I personally prefer to browse All - New and just block all Communities (and instances) that I don't want to see. I subscribe too of course for those times I just want to see the content I'm actually interested in but for casual browsing, browse by all.

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