classybattery

joined 2 days ago

i do in fact have bipolar, actually, but i take meds for it. they're giving me a higher dose.

[–] classybattery@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

thank you so much!!! i feel so bad for him

 

i (m, gay) have been with my bf (m, bi) for about three months. we are in a long-distance relationship, and we've been friends for a year or two now, maybe like october 2023. lately, he's been really depressed. when he's not depressed, he's just tired and overall low energy. he never really has a lot of energy to talk to me or anything like that, and even if he wants to, he doesn't feel like it from his depression.

he has had a bad childhood and has trauma and i feel really bad for him. i get really sad/depressed when he's depressed and he says i do help, but only a little because he's so empty. he also doesn't know what he wants, so i'm there to support him. he doesn't know whether or not he wants to talk to me sometimes either, so sometimes we take mental health breaks and come back once we're happier.

i don't really know what to do, it's also not like he lost feelings for me.

he comes from a fairly poor family with an abusive family member.

this sounds a lot like me! i'm autistic and female born, so i kind of switch between nonbinary and masc/male. right now, i just identify as nonbinary transmasc. i think im seen as female on the outside and i don't really care, but at the same time, i wish i looked and was seen as more male.

why would you post this on a gay community anyway???

 

i was straight for a long time until i dated a masc-presenting enby (masc + neutral terms) and realized i was ok with having boyfriends and dating guys and masc people. now i don’t even know if i like girls so i’ve come full circle or whatever…

oh wow!! it seems great, i wish i could get ittt

ياللهي يا سلام!

that's interesting!!

[–] classybattery@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

هل يمكنك النشر حتى أستطيع أن أجعلك مشرفاً؟

 

i was straight for a good, long while until i dated a nonbinary person (he/they) for about 10 days and realized that i had a boyfriend (that's the term he preferred) for those 10 days. then i was open to having more boyfriends and now i don't even know if i like girls but it's ok 👍

thanks!! i will definitely try more physical activity, that’s great that u were able to figure it out 😊

!chat_ar@sh.itjust.works

يمكنك حتى أن تكون مشرفًا لأنني لا أتكلم العربية

there was an arab chit-chat on lemm.ee, i can try and bring it here.

 

you can request some in the replies too and i can find some!! please also let me know if there is more that you know of to add!!

from what i can find and only some:

mandarin - fasheng.ing

portuguese - lemmy.eco.br

lemmy.teuto.icu

forum.ayom.media

lemmy.pt

lemmy.plaureano.nohost.me

spanish - mujico.org

feddit.cl

chachara.club

russian - rekabu.ru

shibanu.app

japanese - lm.korako.me

philosophy.cafe

fenmou.cyou

lem.ph3j.com

polish - szmer.info

fedit.pl

tech.pr0n.pl

lemmy.sieprawski.pl

german -

stammtisch.hallertau.social

rollenspiel.forum

lemmy.fedifriends.social

feddit.org

lemmy.klein.ruhr

zonenranslite.de

lemmy.hogru.ch

linz.city

french - social.ggbox.fr

jlai.lu

links.gayfr.online

kourjetez.bzh?

lemmy.coupou.fr

danish - feddit.dk

slangenettet.pyjam.as

swedish - aggregatet.org

feddit.nu

lemmy.ahall.se

italian - feddit.it

l.posterdati.it

diggita.com

lemmy.casasnow.noho.st

 

i'm currently using tesseract to view and post things, i've also heard of photon. are there any else?

 

that’s definitely me right now, sadly.

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