exasperation

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[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 4 points 20 hours ago

The plot of Austin Powers revolves around thawing a man who has been frozen for 30 years, from 1967 to 1997. Only 2 years to go before we reach 30 years from that movie's release.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 2 points 20 hours ago

Colin Farrell in Phone Booth perfectly captured that early 2000's feeling of where we were, technologically.

1998's You've Got Mail does, too.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I mean, that's entirely possible, based on the one account we have from the showrunner

I'm going off of the text of the books themselves getting bogged down with new characters and storylines, and the publication history:

  • A Game of Thrones (1996)
  • A Clash of Kings (1998)
  • A Storm of Swords (2000)
  • A Feast for Crows (2005)
  • A Dance with Dragons (2011)

The current year is 2025. GRRM is 77 years old. There are supposed to be two books left. They're never going to be published.

Dan and Dave ruined the original series by rushing it

My point is that there's no way forward without abruptly pruning several storylines. Thus, the story is basically impossible to finish in a satisfying way, and this is all we're gonna get from him.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 14 points 4 days ago (5 children)

They cut out a character to save money and air time, and George thinks that will make the plot fall apart later.

Counterpoint: GRRM has written himself into a corner and can't actually finish his own story where he originally envisioned it.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 8 points 5 days ago

Ok, that's funny. I'd go on a date with you.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Her: So, you want anything to drink?

Wait are you hitting on them at their place of work, as a customer? Don't fucking do that.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago

Maybe forget "techniques" and be real.

For many people, being playful, like on OP's example, is being real. I'm a playful person. I have generally been a class clown my entire life, and I'd even say it's a pretty core part of my personality and my identity.

I've been married over 10 years, with kids, and I still do this kind of stuff with my wife. I enjoy being silly with my kids, too.

And when I was dating I'd rely pretty heavily on humor for flirting throughout all stages, from meeting a stranger to setting up a first date to being on a date, to going on multiple dates. The other person's laughter was an indicator of whether we were making a connection. And then, later on, I learned that I could expect my partner to be funny too, and actively make me laugh.

Being fun and flirty is a legitimate strategy for making sure you have the opportunity to connect with people. It is, in itself, attractive to some. And it might be unattractive to others, but it's better to be attractive to some and unattractive to others than it is to be forgettable and unnoticed.

If they like you they do, if not who cares?

I think this is a pretty naive way of looking at relationships. Connections require some level of effort, especially in adult life. As much as we'd all love to just naturally have friendships, romantic partners, and other relationships just fall into our laps, that's not really how that works. Most connections require a bit of work to find others, to find commonalities, to develop interest, to have some give and take of making a deeper connection, to have some vulnerability and growth and change as that stranger becomes an acquaintance and develops into someone close.

For younger people, especially under 30, looking for a partner isn't just about looking for someone they like now. It's also someone they want to grow with and experience things together with.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 17 points 6 days ago

The native species may even do better with this loss

Not if the native species are also susceptible to the same cause of death. If that's the case, the European honeybee deaths could be an indicator, correlated with the uncounted deaths of the native species.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 24 points 1 week ago (3 children)

(I must say I disagree completely with that guy sharing messages from his girlfriend- that piece is very weird and a total breach of trust)

My impression from the original post was that kind of stuff was what drove most of the fallout. Leaked off color memes aren't going to ruin people's relationships, but leaked shit talk or breaches of someone else's privacy will.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

I can change her

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee -1 points 1 week ago

Can you please not use that term "Lazy Susan"? It's got racist and sexist connotations, and I'd really prefer you just not call it that.

Who's that racist towards? Susans? That's crazy. Where'd you get that?

Okay. I would just like you to not use the term.

You're right. You know what? It should be...

We should definitely start using the Ambitious Susan.

Yes, yes. Please spin the Indefatigable Susan.

Oh, can we have the Multifaceted Susan my way, please?

Yeah, spin the Industrious Susan.

Ooh, can you spin Ambidextrous Susan, please.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

We etched special runes onto polished sand so that we control how lightning moves through it, so that it could seem like an intelligent mind of its own.

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