misteloct

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[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 39 minutes ago* (last edited 36 minutes ago)

Power dynamics can be hot, only when they're consensual. You can't take a minor and give them a safe word that turns them 25.

In a world where sex with teenagers wasn't taboo, even then we still want it to be illegal to counter the power imbalance. It gives power to the less informed party. That world would also require curing all STDs, all disease, abortion being universally acceptable, perfect birth control, and nearly perfect emotional maturity from everyone - mandatory perfect parenting, school, and therapy for 100% of people, free mandatory parenting, probably a post- singularity situation if it's even conceivable. We might also envision a world where theft is acceptable, or murder, because we've progressed so far as a society that we lose any ability to carry trauma, and thus lose our sense of self. I don't think these will ever happen and if we do there would be no laws at all.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 46 minutes ago

Hey I'm sure there's plenty of 34 and 12 year olds that do have a healthy relationship, you're just cherry picking the bad one here.

/s /s /s

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Then you're only looking at one side of the coin and saying it's double sided.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 23 hours ago (9 children)

For some reason it makes me happy you're on here, I thought it was all tech neckbeards. Wish your family luck in bargain hunting!

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I'm downvoting it for the premise that there's usually nothing wrong with it. It may work out in some cases, but I only hear about it rarely compared to the times it did work out. A lady interviewed about her positive experience with David Bowie when she was a teen (I wouldn't downvote her, she vouched for the guy not the practice). This guy says he has a good experience. Then there are thousands of others that didn't. Scientific papers showing negatives, and virtually no positives to outweigh the risk. It's almost like advocating for gambling, some may win but most will lose. Glad that the op was a winner.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

What if your physics teacher got pregnant and decided to keep the child? What if you got an STD? What if you rejected/cheated on her and she gave you bad grades or made up shit about you to get you expelled? Would it have been an "attaboy" in that common situation?

Realistically unless you press charges there won't be a criminal proceeding. Even in your case, having the option of a criminal proceeding gives you a lot of protection. You're lucky you didn't need to use it. I'd venture a vast majority of times don't end up like yours. It's never "just sex".

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

In some jurisdictions maybe, but only if it's close in age. Like 16 and 18. 26 is very upsetting, what if she got pregnant and kept the child?

He didn't kill Thompson imo (unfortunately) but he's still qualified as bravest American alive.

It's very possible Trump could be the eternal president, even after he dies. Would it make a difference if he's alive or just a concept?

Do you mean after his third or fourth term?

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'll bet $1000 that we'll slip into fascism unless we vote Mangione as a write in. Nobody else has the guts to stand up to these thugs. The guy is paraded around like he's guilty, and stands tall.

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Thanks to all you goody-two-shoes, I finally made the switch, plopped out the proverbial blue buttplug if you will. I am fully on Linux/GNU Operating System 25.04. I'm having a kid soon so wasn't sure if I'd have time to make the switch, but just 300 unforgettable hours later, I'm riding the big purple penguin. I had some doubts, I was itching for that creamy feeling of big daddy Gates peering over my shoulder while I do the dirty. After my Windows VM crashed today, I knew I was at full parity with where I started, I literally got chills. Thanks everyone, I feel full again, wholly ;)

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